Ok, so I met up with an old friend from high school a week ago. She's now 17 and I just turned 18 (in college).
I'm a direct guy, so immediately I start flirting with her. It's been 5 days since we met up, and we've chilled together 3 times and texted everyday. She doesn't not like it because I can tell when someone is annoyed. Every time I see her, I go for a kiss sometime near the end of the interaction.
The first time, we were cuddling and watching a movie. After, I asked her what she would do if I kissed her (I know. A horrible move.). She said she didn't know, so I went for it and got a cheek. Then I asked her if chasing her was going to lead anywhere. She said that she didn't not like me. I smiled and winked at her, which made her smile. Then I took her home.
She's always giddy when I text her. We talk a lot.
The next two encounters I went for a kiss as well. Each time she says that it would be weird because she doesn't know me well enough and she hasn't kissed a guy in a while. She does like me though. Anyone can tell if this was a movie and they were watching it. She just might be a little scared to try a relationship with me (She's kind of shy).
Well, I've realized today that I have oneitis. Extreme oneitis. It's pretty bad.
So tomorrow I'm going to get my ears pierced (I've always wanted to try
) and she's' coming with me. After, I'm going to grab her hand and hold both of her hands against the car (Gently but firm); I'm thinking about telling her this:"Let’s talk.
You know, you’re an awesome, sexy chick. I’d love to see where we’d go, but I’ve never been one to chase. Don’t get me wrong, chasin you has been a fun ride, but the chase... It’s done. You know me well enough to decide whether you’re in or you’re out. You wanna try us out or you don’t."
(You can tell I have extreme oneitis because I've literally planned tomorrow out. How sad.)
It's not gonna be too serious, but I'm not gonna be my normal super funny guy when saying this.
What do you think? I either get rejected and break away from my oneitis, or I'm gonna get the girl.