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| Author: | no dice [ Sat Mar 26, 2011 4:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Keep trying or let her go? |
Hello all, I'm new to the forum, but not exactly new to the PUA field. Some background on my perplexing situation: Meet a 'two set' of women at a local bar; focused on one I liked, while not excluding her friend. Bought a round of drinks, danced with 'the one', engaging small talk, got her number, and she even initiated a really nice hug before I left...basically as far as I'm concerned - a nearly flawless first encounter. I waited three days to call. Left a message. She called back 5-10 mins. later. She's on the way home (8pm) from being out with friends. We talk for 5 mins. and before I can arrange a first date she says 'can I call you back?'. No problem. She didn't call back that night. The next day I text her - 'hey, what happened', but in a non-desperate way. She texts back, showing more green lights - 'I want to see you, etc.' The next night I call. I leave a light, short message - 'how's it going; call me, etc.' No response from her. Normally at this point I'd drop it and move on. BUT we had such a good attraction/connection when we initially met, and all of my past experience with first encounters says - with an encounter like that, peruse it. It did cross my mind that I am getting gamed... Any advice on re-approaches at this point? Thanks! |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Sat Mar 26, 2011 4:36 pm ] |
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some of the most charming girls are also some of the biggest flakers. it doesn't matter if she's your fucking soulmate, she has flaked on you twice, before ever even having a date. maybe she isn't such a catch. research "how to handle flaking" |
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| Author: | flyhotstuff [ Sat Mar 26, 2011 7:53 pm ] |
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Through text many things can be taken as desperation... I personally would have never asked "what happened" I'd just send her a funny text and continue the Congo and initiate a meet. Don't leave those kinds of voicemail. Make it so she is compelled go return the call. And is she was really so attracted to you she probably would've called you by now. Don't give up. Read the ultimate text an phone game |
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