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Author:  PeteNana15 [ Sat Mar 26, 2011 11:14 am ]
Post subject:  Missed hb's call in middle of night
Okay so I woke up this morning to a missed call from an hb that i met a few months ago. We have hung out once and have texted seldomly. Im assuming she might have been drunk and wanted to to come out i guess. The point is she was thinking about me.

What should I do from here. Call her today and say saw your missed call whats up? I haven't talked to her in a while making the phone call a bit random..


This is an hb 8 that I would like to pursue



thanks
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Sat Mar 26, 2011 2:38 pm ]
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dont say "i saw your missed call, what's up?"

you know what was up! she wanted a slice of your manjunk, duh!

text her and say "ooh i missed your call! sorry you got denied this hot slice of manjunk! if you call again, i just might pick up"

OBVIOUSLY DO NOT SAY THAT. as this is of course a joke, but you get the drift. i would go with cocky/funny or you risk raising her anti-slut defense shield and making her field awkward about drunk-dialing you for a piece of late night booty.
Author:  jurupa [ Sun Mar 27, 2011 9:37 am ]
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dont say "i saw your missed call, what's up?"

you know what was up! she wanted a slice of your manjunk, duh!

text her and say "ooh i missed your call! sorry you got denied this hot slice of manjunk! if you call again, i just might pick up"

OBVIOUSLY DO NOT SAY THAT. as this is of course a joke, but you get the drift. i would go with cocky/funny or you risk raising her anti-slut defense shield and making her field awkward about drunk-dialing you for a piece of late night booty.
On the flip side knowing its a girl she may have needed someone to emotionally lash out for what ever reason. :P
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Sun Mar 27, 2011 1:10 pm ]
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On the flip side knowing its a girl she may have needed someone to emotionally lash out for what ever reason. :P
i hear ya, but i don't think we want to encourage girls to call us in the middle of the night to be their emotional tampons. as a policy, should we not always assume there is sexual chemistry and move from that frame? i would assume that she wanted a hookup. of course, i would be incredibly tactful and playful about it, just in case she actually was calling for help with a flat tire.
Author:  here2play [ Sun Mar 27, 2011 5:15 pm ]
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Yep, go with something cocky funny and don't encourage emotional tamponism in the middle of the night.


Middle of the night booty call = yes.

Middle of the night boo hoo session = no.


Today's phone call -

Her - "hello"

You - "if you called me in the middle of the night cause you were on your way over for a booty call with one of your girlfriends, I'm sorry I missed your call. Let's try again tonight but make it earlier when I'm actually awake LOL"
Author:  Draconobilus [ Mon Mar 28, 2011 10:11 am ]
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my personal reply would be in a text:

"Sorry I missed your call I was in the shower, you ok?"

This way you are not being too needy, and you are showing an alpha side more, plus it's a simple question at the end you aren't presuming anything so it should not offend!

Hope this helps!
Author:  far2ez [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 1:33 am ]
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What's wrong with 'emotional tamponism', exactly?

Last I checked, gaming is about making a girl thinking you give a shit.

If you're there for her boo hoo's, that might establish a fuckton of rapport. End it with a "You're stressed." +/- (joking) "Think you need a good fuck." OR (serious) "I'm free tomorrow night, I'll pick up some (beer/whatever) and you can come over here and we can discuss it." -> good excuse to talk about massaging her -> whatever.

The idea is "I'll listen" + "Do not LJBF me" - before I even heard of PUA, this was the first and easiest way to have girls eating out of the palms of my hands.
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 1:53 am ]
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What's wrong with 'emotional tamponism', exactly?

Last I checked, gaming is about making a girl thinking you give a shit.

If you're there for her boo hoo's, that might establish a fuckton of rapport. End it with a "You're stressed." +/- (joking) "Think you need a good fuck." OR (serious) "I'm free tomorrow night, I'll pick up some (beer/whatever) and you can come over here and we can discuss it." -> good excuse to talk about massaging her -> whatever.

The idea is "I'll listen" + "Do not LJBF me" - before I even heard of PUA, this was the first and easiest way to have girls eating out of the palms of my hands.
Both may lead to pussy,

but only one way requires you to "act" like a pussy.

PUA is the winning road! Not acting like a gay friend and coaxing sex...lol
Author:  far2ez [ Tue Mar 29, 2011 3:13 pm ]
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Both may lead to pussy,

but only one way requires you to "act" like a pussy.

PUA is the winning road! Not acting like a gay friend and coaxing sex...lol
I largely agree, but part of me still says that if you sit through 1 boo hoo session and blow off all the rest, that's all you need in order to say things like "I've been there for you when [x]" or "We've always been close remember that time you [x]" - easy lines in a long-term investment. If you establish that kind of long-term rapport with each girl, before you know it you have a little black book of "Any of these girls will fuck me even though it's been 10 months since I spoke to any of them" without so much flaking or one-night stands.

I don't mean relationships or any shit, I just mean long-term fuck buddies - keeping your foot in that door for future reopening.

But I mean, each person has their own way of doing things. Even I'd say, however, not to 'emotionally tampon' all night every night or any bullshit like that. My suggestion is to listen once or twice (max) just to be able to call her out on that shit in the future ("I did this for you"-type shit, used gracefully). I'd never put up with some random HB calling me all night crying about her shitty problems.
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