Is it possible for a women to have had enough?
By "having enough" I mean, not wanting more sex.
Let me explain: I always either go down on my girlfriend or pleasure her with my fingers before having sex (she tells me that she has an orgasm every time I do either - most of the work is done around her clitoris, sticking my fingers is just a little "bonus" I add). Its just something i've been used to, for me, you need to boil the water before putting the pasta in it.
However, I usually notice that she has what she call's an orgasm (she isn't much of a screamer, but her body just starts going crazy and shaking everywhere to a point where "she just can't take it anymore", and don't get me wrong, she does make noise, but not porno-esque noise).
After which she often tells me that "she doesn't want to get pleasured right after again" because just like for men after ejaculating, you just don't rub your ding right after. (those are her words). Is this the same for women?
Sometimes during sex she will ask me if i'm about to cum yet because she apparently already has.
Also, we've never had sex more than 3 times in row because she often says that her privates "sting". I, want to have loads of sex for days and days
I've always thought that women rarely have orgasms, and therefore I find it weird that she would almost consistently have one.
Furthermore, when she asks me if i'm about to finish, it kind of makes me feel like she isn't enjoying herself. She looks like she is (facial expressions, noise, etc) but is she really?
Another issue I sometimes have is that I will be hard (take notice that i'm in my early 20's), start penetration, then do a couple of different positions, and sometimes I will pull out to do switch positions and my penis is soft.
She laughs and says that its because he's tired! However, what kind of problem is this?
I have absolutely no issue getting the horse up, but it looks like it could use a bit of Redbull sometimes in the long run...