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| Author: | NashLife [ Tue Mar 22, 2011 11:41 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Have we moved past negging? |
I have never used negging in picking up a girl. Different people have described different ways of negging, but anyway it has been described it just does not fit my personality. I have not read anyone on this message board bring up negging. So, I'm wondering has negging become old news? The only reason, I'm even bringing this up is because it just occurred to me that a female bank teller where I bank may have been trying to neg me for a while. She is very fat and ugly, blah! And whenever she is doing my transactions she'll throw in commentary about me--how I'm dressed or my hair--or my transactions. First off, there is nothing she could say either positive or negative which would make her attractive to me. She is just disgusting and repulsive. However, were she to say nice things to me I would at least not get pissed off. It takes a lot for me to get pissed off. Usually, I just give people the benefit of the doubt unless I feel they are being malicious. Today was the last straw. I did not make a scene nor was I dramatic. I just said in a low voice to her, "Will you cut the f'ing commentary and just do your job?" She was totally taken aback, but she completed the transaction and did not say anything. Now I compare her to another teller She is really hot and really sweet. I always compliment her on something, and she always smiles and says thank you. Were she not a teller at my bank, I would totally ask her out. So, I cannot understand how any girl could be receptive to negging? Thoughts? |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 1:29 am ] |
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negging has its place. but like anything else, CONTEXT and DELIVERY are key. i like negging for a lot of reasons. it shows a woman that you aren't intimidated by her, that you aren't chasing after her, and that you are confident in your ability to stand up for yourself. that being said, CONTEXT and DELIVERY. |
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| Author: | Wal [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 1:48 am ] |
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It sounds as though you were just being insulted. Negging isn't simply insulting another person, but I understand your point. I see a lot of guys start out with an insult with the belief they were negging. You have to have at least some rapport with someone before you can neg. This girl had no rapport with you. Anyway, I like the negs that come off as a compliment. "Oh, its so cute when your face gets all red like that, when you blush." |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 1:53 am ] |
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i've read that you should never neg a girl's appearance or her features that she can't change. red cheeks is something she can't help and she may be actually self-conscious about it. pick on clothes, accessories, choice in music, hairdo, other things that don't go to the core of who she is. and the neg should be funny, no? |
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| Author: | Wal [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 2:23 am ] |
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Fair enough, maybe that was a bad example. My point was that insulting a person (regardless of rapport) is not considered negging. I always thought of a neg as something that could be taken either way and is ambiguous in intent. Then again I don't like the word negging because most guys think it means "insulting." |
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