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Author:  baracuda [ Tue Mar 22, 2011 9:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Things finally lookin up for me in the pua world
But whats changed! .
So iv been studying pua for about 6 months now an to be honest it just has not sanl in.
Iv learnt a few tricks an read alot plus i work in a retail store so i have a chance to chat to many people, an even though im still nervous im finaly these past 2 weeks smiling at people. an chattin to them but im still in my head but working on it.

I still have approch anxiety but now it seems like i WANT to go talk to them not forcing myself i still carnt open , maybe because its in work an i wouldnt want to get rejected an work colleges finding out, or maybe i think i could get the sack for chattin up random coustomers.

But these past 2 weeks im just finding myself way more confident like this girl iv been talkin to for ages but shes in uni so its hard to meet we were definatly going to meet next week then on facebook she has found herself a bf, It has knocked me a bit because i did like her tbh thought i had oneitis, but its just i dont seem arsed like im thinkin stuff to myself like its her loss, an even though im crap at it im still pushin myself an not giving up, im thinking stuff like well atleast if she contacts me it gives me a chance to try out a bf destroyer.

Its crazy i just seriously dont no whats caused me to change so fast when i see people its like i can read there body language 2 week ago i was just practising my own only ones i could notice where the hair flick now its like i just can tell an spot whats happenin an they want to be opended, although i still have trouble forcing eye contact some just dont even make it.

can anyone help me with this question then ?
What has caused me to change is it somethin iv read an not realised does this stuff even if it doesnt seem to stick in your head just store it in your memory even if you carnt remember what you have read, Am i becoming a natural, is it just tempoary, its happend so fast its shocked me but its good so im not complaining
The only things i can remember learning is saying stuff to yourself like i am a alpha male an basicly just positive thinking does this stuff help an happen this fast.

Also my grammar is poor im sorry guys n girls but since iv been here its hell of improved so im happy progress progress progress yeah :D
Author:  baracuda [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 2:55 pm ]
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anyone please ?
Author:  Spike007 [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 3:24 pm ]
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I am not sure if you are worried or not about it, but it's a good thing! It became easier for you to communicate with strangers without thinking "Oh I read this, I should try it out". In my opinion, your game should be natural. I mean even if you do all textbook, it will become natural to you.

Your job can help you A LOT. I work on a retail store too, I have to say Hi to everyone I see. Most of the time I say "Hi how are you doing today?". About 25 to 40% of the time people will answer something that you don't really need to know like "Hi, I am just looking for a new shirt for a party tonight". From then you can start a conversation about it (carefull not to sound too creepy).

One time, I was working (btw I don't sell clothes, I sell computers), and I chatted with this girl for about 1h! I saw her in a club about 3 weeks later and we danced together. It happened that one of my good friend is a good friend of hers.

You should try to have "normal" conversation with people. I think you shouldn't think about it like if you should pick up the girl, just chat. Don't try to close or anything, in your situation you should be confortable talking without being nervous. You have to beat your approch anxiety first. Your job seems perfect for that.
Author:  baracuda [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 4:04 pm ]
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hey thanks for the reply well in my store you dont realy have to talk to anyone the job i do but im starting to smile at them now an have the occasional chat with them.
yes i to belive its a good thing its just came out of the blue from 6 months learning nothing sinking in , like today went to town with my friend comeing back saw some woman gardening in her garden she was pretty old about 40 wasnt attracted to her or out just said to her its a lovely day aint it but then i saw her husband an panicked a bit haha but its somethin iv never done before.

i was also waving at randomers in cars i saw saschas video the one blondie has in his sig an he said just start doing random things im on week 2 of the videos an i belive that has what has changed me.
and self talk aswell i think has because iv only properly started doing that.

its exciting times anyway has anyone else just had that shift in mentality where one day you just dont get then the next it just seems to click, id like to here if its just not my mind playing tricks on me because i just didnt expect it to happen suddenly.
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