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| Author: | cerebralassassin [ Mon Mar 21, 2011 8:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | very messed up situation |
a girl i dated 8 years ago came back in to my life recently. this is a girl i dont have fond memories of she cheated on me (with a friend) taunted me and got pregnant and claimed it was mine then had an abortion. it was a tough time for a long time it left me a wreck! anyways now shes married and has 2 kids and she contacted me on facebook and said she was sorry for everything and so we got a bit chatty on facebook then she started contacting me all the time as she doesnt have much of a home life and doesnt love her husband! i got a message today on facebook saying that she is going to leave her husband and NOW WANTS TO BE WITH ME AND CLAIMS SHE LOVES ME!!! heres the problem she hasnt seen me in 8 years and now shes saying she wants me back. firstly i dont trust her and wont forget what she did secondly i have no feelings towards her i was only being friendly as she has had a bad past and finally i dont want to be with her. i didnt ask for or instigate this HOW DO I GET RID OF HER WITHOUT BEING AN ASSHOLE? |
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| Author: | NashLife [ Mon Mar 21, 2011 8:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: very messed up situation |
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HOW DO I GET RID OF HER WITHOUT BEING AN ASSHOLE?
Based on everything I read, you have every right to be an a-hole. She could have screwed up your entire life, instead she has screwed up her children's life and her husband's life.Look, from what I read, the only contact you have with her is through Facebook. You don't want to be an a-hole, fine. The best way to get her out of your life is simple. Un-friend her and block her from sending you messages on Facebook. If she has your phone number, block her number. You do not have to offer any explanation or make any dramatic gestures. |
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| Author: | cerebralassassin [ Mon Mar 21, 2011 9:17 pm ] |
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i cant do it thats what she did to me. whats disturbing is her youngest child is only a few months old |
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| Author: | NashLife [ Mon Mar 21, 2011 9:31 pm ] |
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Quote: i cant do it thats what she did to me. whats disturbing is her youngest child is only a few months old
I know how you feel buddy; you are a good guy--I'm not saying you are , "nice," but a good guy there is a big difference. It does suck that she has a toddler and she is reckless and potentially, dangerous. However, she is in no way your responsibility. You can do nothing to make the situation better for her or her children. The only thing that can result is you get dragged down as well. If you truly care about her children, then you can suggest she works with a social worker or a psychologist to get her life together. Not only are these people paid to help people get back on track, they have the training and the necessary distance to do so. Personally, if you can afford therapy or can find a good therapist with a sliding scale then I recommend seeing one. Realistically and while you may not want to admit it, she has abused you and has left you with some pretty deep scars. Abuse is a cycle, abuse keeps you at a point in life such that you cannot move on. You have to move on, do not get sucked in back to the cycle. |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Mon Mar 21, 2011 9:35 pm ] |
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i would send her pictures of aborted fetuses. |
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| Author: | cerebralassassin [ Wed Mar 23, 2011 5:18 pm ] |
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its gotten stranger she wants me to be her f-buddy question is would anyone baring in mind what ive said about her so far |
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