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Author:	Physicist [ Sat Mar 19, 2011 12:46 pm ]
Post subject:	How to qualify without offending
As the title says. Basically, there are girls who are a bit egotistical and so might take offensive. I was thinking something like this the other day though, where I agreed to meet up with a girl in a different place than mine but then after a while asked "why should I come to see YOU all this way", at which point she replied with something like "if you are looking for a reason, then there is no point" and I asked her if she took offence and she said yes. Or basically in general this thought popped into my head when you ask for reasons and they say "if you need a reason, then there is no point". This makes me think, when and where should you qualify, and under what circumstances or situations? Is it necessary for someone to qualify after they have been interacting for some time?

Author:	Kupid [ Sat Mar 19, 2011 6:22 pm ]
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Try to make smaller qualifications first, before you do the bigger ones. For example: Small: Are you adventurous/good friend/spontaneous/interesting/emotional... (those are positive women stereotypes) Medium: What do you got going for more than your looks/What makes you a good person/Why are you special/What is interesting about you... Large: Why would I want to get to know you/What are your 3 qualities, that a stranger would love on you/Why do you think I like you... When you are going through qualification phase, do a few smaller qualifications at first, then few medium ones and at the end the large ones. Hope it works Enjoy

Author:	Physicist [ Sat Mar 19, 2011 6:42 pm ]
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[quote="Kupid"]Try to make smaller qualifications first, before you do the bigger ones. For example: Small: Are you adventurous/good friend/spontaneous/interesting/emotional... (those are positive women stereotypes) Medium: What do you got going for more than your looks/What makes you a good person/Why are you special/What is interesting about you... Large: Why would I want to get to know you/What are your 3 qualities, that a stranger would love on you/Why do you think I like you... When you are going through qualification phase, do a few smaller qualifications at first, then few medium ones and at the end the large ones. Hope it works Enjoy [/quote] Whoa thanks. Just to ask, are there any good articles or literature qualification because I'm having a lot of trouble around the subject.

Author:	Kupid [ Sat Mar 19, 2011 7:00 pm ]
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Yeah Sinn has a lot on this subject (Those small/medium/large qualifications are acualy his theory not mine ). He speaks about it in his daygame seminar. But aside to that, for qualification, he uses the same model as Mystery's A3 (bait-hook-reel-release-[and he has a RAPPORT QUESTION at the end]) See ya

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