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Author:  Buffalo Soldier [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 12:00 am ]
Post subject:  Finding Women that Enjoy Being on Top/Dom in the sack
After shagging a few women I found out something about myself. I can't get off on top. I mean I can't bust a nut unless it's woman on top. I enjoy taking the lead with women from the approach to the bed room, and while I can get aroused from "the chase" during seduction, a woman bending over in front of me, begging for my dick, doggie style, ect.... I just can't seem to climax from that stuff. There's something just so damn hot about petite, cute, feminine girls getting all crazy and bossy in the bedroom.
My questions are the following:
1. Is there any way to use my own qualifications questions to find the type of woman I want to make sexy sex with?
2. How do a entice a stereotypical submissive woman that I've already seduced/fornicated with to start exploring her sexually dominant side?

A few suggestions to make to newbie woman, I found on another site:
-Binding your man to a chair and feeding him dessert
-Tying your man's hands behind his back and making him service you orally
-Blindfolding your man and instructing him how to make love to you
Author:  jurupa [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 6:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Finding Women that Enjoy Being on Top/Dom in the sack
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1. Is there any way to use my own qualifications questions to find the type of woman I want to make sexy sex with?
The only way to see if the girl is sexually dominate is to see if she is more aggressive in her answers when you ask her sexual questions. The problem with that tho is if she is horny or craves sex a lot it may come off as being sexually dominating. There is really no real way to tell without asking the girl out right. You can ask her if she likes tying up the guy or something, but if you are going to ask that you might as well ask if she likes taking control in the bedroom.
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2. How do a entice a stereotypical submissive woman that I've already seduced/fornicated with to start exploring her sexually dominant side?
You can try the things you mention. Tho be aware that she may not have a sexual dominate side in her at all, so don't be surprise if things fail or don't go to plan.
Author:  biggus [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 10:45 am ]
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Your looking at this wrong if it's a positional thing, It doesnt matter! Just fuck the shit out of them, if you cant come this will be a bonus give them a load of orgasms, then TELL them to ride you! Even if they are submissive they will follow your lead, which is you wanting them pounding you into the mattress!

Femdom stuff I would be careful of thinking that = girl on top, chances are if you want her on top it wont matter she will do what she wants and expect you to obey :P

Ideally what you should be looking for is a submissive who is still sexually adventurous who you can get to do what you want (cowgirl).
Author:  Hell Vamp [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 3:36 pm ]
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just tell her to get on top of you, more than likely she would.
Author:  BrianFL2 [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 3:48 pm ]
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I don't think he is talking about physical position, he is talking about D/S , or dom/sub, in other words the woman takes charge in bed.

I don't seem to have trouble finding these women, although I don't want them most of the time. I'm the type that likes to switch things up.

First of all, don't get discouraged if you can't find a dom woman, there really aren't that many. However you can spot them if you know how.

First, look at her general demeanor and personality. Some people are very mild mannered in life but dom in bed, but that does not seem to apply to women in my personal experience. So far, if a woman is take charge in her life, she is more likely to be take charge in bed.

Second, determine if she is bisexual. This is not required at all, but bi women are much more likely to be into D/S in my experience, which means they are more likely to have experience/interest in being dominant.

Third, determine if she is into any BDSM activities of any kind.

So, take charge bisexual woman into BDSM...she'll probably do things to you that you haven't thought of yet, lol :)
Author:  Hell Vamp [ Thu Mar 17, 2011 3:54 pm ]
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well, there's no need for her to have a dom side, he can create that, just tell her you like playing games, let her get the equipment you want, & bang her the way you like it.
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