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| Author: | ATM16 [ Tue Mar 15, 2011 11:26 am ] |
| Post subject: | Advice with HB8 needed (has a long distance BF) |
She just moved into my friends apartment a few days ago. The first day that we were talking properly I found out about her Long Distance BF who she says she's going to stay faithful to. The first full day we spent together was on Saturday when me, her and her roommates (my friends) went hiking. There were five of us altogether. Nearly 80% of the time we spent together just talking and me using lots of kino to help her while hiking in rougher areas. The whole time though I was playfully busting on her about the way she was acting while hiking and getting good feedback from her. We get to the end of the trail and there are these natural pools. I decide to go to the top one and strip off and go swimming. I'm in the water for a few minutes (which was absolutely freezing) before I get out and get dressed. Then this asian guy turns up to see the pool I'm in and a few mins later HB8 turns up and strips down to her underwear and goes into the water for a minute up to her ankles. We get the asian guy to take a picture of us (me holding her very close to me while she was half naked). Again lots of kino while hiking back down etc. Next day just me and her go to an amusement park/arcade and go on a roller coaster together. While waiting on the roller coaster we are talking about sex and stuff and says she won't fuck me because she wants to remain faithful. But if she didn't have a boyfriend we would fuck. While we were out that day we were on a monorail and she said "It's a shame I have a boyfriend otherwise we could fuck here on this monorail". Later that night I got her to write in this book I have while travelling (I get people to write random thoughts in it). One of the things she wrote was "To bad we never had sex". She also complimented throughout that. She's given me some signs that make me think I could take this further but others that make me think it would be a bad idea and make things awkward between me and her which would be annoying since I'm around at her place a lot hanging out with my friend. Help and advice appreciated. |
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| Author: | trixsta [ Tue Mar 15, 2011 2:28 pm ] |
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Your post is somewhat vague. Is the question "how do seduce her?" If so, you've not even tried to - so try. Is the question "should you try?" That's up to you. Why would a bunch of people who've just skimmed your thread or even read the thread carefully but don't even know you, the girl or the situation know? As for my thoughts, I would feel slightly bad trying to sleep with another guy's girlfriend but I've done it plenty of times and if a girl is going to cheat, she's going to cheat. Better the guy finds out sooner rather than later. Not saying my logic is unfallible but that's the way I see it. This isn't a morals thread though. As for the awkwardness, I don't think it would be awkward. It's only awkward if you make it awkward. Don't brag to your friends, don't act like anything is wrong. All the girls I've had sex with at uni I still talk to if I see them around and some I'm still good friends with. Just because you've had sex once or a few times doesn't mean you have to ignore each other just because most other guys do. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Mar 15, 2011 3:11 pm ] |
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Please don't post stuff about ONE PARTICULAR girl in the Lounge, post it in GENERAL QUESTIONS. As for your question - you've done all you can. You got her attracted to you and she wants to, but she has a boyfriend. There's nothing you can do except keep hanging out and being friends, and be gaming other women. Maybe she'll break up with him and you'll get your chance, but either way don't hold your hopes out for anything with her. It's just ONE chick. |
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| Author: | ATM16 [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 11:15 am ] |
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Sorry about that Blondguy. Yeah sorry about how vague the post was. I wrote it before I left the house. I'm trying not to keep on picking up girls who have boyfriends because it just doesn't seem right to do so. If I ever end up in a relationship and I get cheated on I'll be a hypocrite for complaining about it. I like the girl a lot and want to fuck her but: 1. Wasn't sure given the signs if it was still possible and 2. I was wondering what does it mean when a girl says "I would fuck you if I didn't have a boyfriend" multiple times? Does it actually mean that or does it mean I want to fuck you but I'm telling you that I have a boyfriend and if you continue to pursue this and we fuck you're the guilty one? Or is she just saying that to be nice and feed my ego a bit? |
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| Author: | flyhotstuff [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 12:58 pm ] |
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have you kiss closed man? if you have i would just do the di carlo escalation ladder and fuck her! |
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| Author: | ATM16 [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 11:35 pm ] |
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No I've not, I probably could have when she said "If I didn't have a boyfriend we could fuck in this monorail" but I bottled it I guess. |
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| Author: | Hakuna [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 11:56 pm ] |
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If a girl talks about her BF in front of you, she is proactively LJBFing you. If she proceeds to flirt and shit, it means she's still attracted to you and wants to keep you as a beta orbiter; women are inclined to try and maximize attention from men. If you can escalate successfully, you might still get an f-close If a girl WANTS to fuck you, she will find a way to fuck you. Everything else is just ego-assuaging bullshit that people rationalize to themselves. Also, rejection is better than regret. You should always go for the kill in instances like these. |
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