Good points...
Its probably a little immature of me to think that a number means anything serious. I read some more on escalation and I think that's the key. Thanks man. I'm cutting and running with the number close instead of growing some balls and escalating.
As for the bf situation, by the sounds of what you said I handled it well. I hooked up with a girl from my college at a party. She had a bf back home which I already knew about. I didn't mention him at all and when she did I just shrugged it off. I was gonna back right off, but I'm gonna see where it goes now.
I'll have to remember that line too
I'm not sure I asked my question as well as I'd have liked to. What I meant was:
If I'm sarging a girl in a club, and I leave to talk to someone else/do something else and I come back and she's with another guy, how do I deal with the other guy? Befriend him? Cockblock him? Move on?
Thanks for the help! Really appreciate it.