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Author:  natedizzle [ Thu Mar 10, 2011 10:30 pm ]
Post subject:  How do you go from a LOW STATUS male to HIGHSTATUS?
I'm already established as a DLV in my neighberhood because I never talked, well now that I think of myself as highstatus, how am I going to be percieved by everyone who already put in their heads that I'm low status...Will they get pissed off? Will they challenge me or call me fake? I know these are insecure thoughts but I need someones advice on it, thanks.
Author:  Noah E [ Thu Mar 10, 2011 10:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you go from a LOW STATUS male to HIGHSTATUS?
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I'm already established as a DLV in my neighberhood because I never talked, well now that I think of myself as highstatus, how am I going to be percieved by everyone who already put in their heads that I'm low status...Will they get pissed off? Will they challenge me or call me fake? I know these are insecure thoughts but I need someones advice on it, thanks.

Hm I'm not completely sure what the question you're asking is, but I'm gonna assume you mean coming out of your shell etc.

The only advice is to take it slow. Make it a slow drawn out process, instead of just becoming a different person overnight, which is what will throw people off.
Author:  axtion [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 12:11 am ]
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My best advise is to forget your neighborhood and find places that you can use first impressions to let people know your a fun cool guy.

But if you really want to establish yourself in your neighborhood, I definitally agree it will take time.

To do it, you will have to show insane value.

1. dress great
2. be seen with hot girls
3. do fun and interesting things
4. be living a cool life
5. most of all, don't try to prove yourself to the other people in your neighborhood, it comes off try hard and low value.
Author:  BrianFL2 [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 12:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do you go from a LOW STATUS male to HIGHSTATUS?
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Will they get pissed off? Will they challenge me or call me fake? I know these are insecure thoughts but I need someones advice on it, thanks.
just in case, I will repeat that those are paranoid thoughts. It sounds like you have some social anxiety. People without social anxiety do not even ask these questions.

I will answer them anyway just for reinforcement.

will they get pissed off ? No. What are you going to do that pisses them off ?

will they challenge me or call me fake ? No, unless you start pretending to be an astronaut or something. If someone calls you fake after wearing a nice shirt or something, they are jealous of your nice shirt, that's it.

Remember, you have been isolating yourself, essentially hiding as much as possible. All these people know about you is that you are quiet and they don't really know you.
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