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| Author: | behindmuhbass [ Thu Mar 10, 2011 5:18 am ] |
| Post subject: | bookstore friendzone |
hello all, this is my first post, i hope i'm doing it in the right location, i'v read many posts and its a little intimidating all the information here. i'm very much looking forward to reading as much as i possible can. i'm very new to the whole pua thing. in that i'm no ladies man. i can def carry on a conversation with a girl with whom i'v just met, so thats not really a sticking points as long as they can carry on conversation themselves. i. e. when i ask them about themselves, they respond in kind. but i digress. this is my situation. i work at a bookstore that has a coffee shop in it, where plenty of attractive women come in daily. when i first took the job i told myself i wasn't going to ask any women i made coffee for out because i didn't want to be the creepy guy at the coffee shop and i'd hate to make a girl not want to come in because of me. needless to say after about 7 or 8 months of that, its like watching the food network when your hungry. so i started asking girls out and i have about a 30% success rate. meanwhile my manager, whos a beautiful blonde woman with glasses, who is amazing. she got me the job. and i used to be friends with her boyfriend. she constantly flirts with me, and speaks very poorly of her boyfriend. (he's the kind of guy who flakes on every planned event and can't keep a job, she supported him without a job for an entire year!) he's living about an hour away and they see each other about once every 2 weeks. they've dated for 5 years. so lately i'v been inviting her to out with me and my friends. she declines 80% of the time, because she considers herself a homebody. shes a book nerd. a geek if you would. but after spending a few awesome evenings with her playing chess and many other intellectual type games, she mentions to another of our employees that she thinks i want to be more than just friends and she doesn't feel the same way. she told someone who is a closer friend to me than she realizes. so i was told hours later. i'm thinking my friend may have misinterpretted what she meant. i invited her out last night, she said no of course, i saw her rest her head on her steering wheel as if she felt re missed for not joining me, perhaps she was tired, regardless, 20 minutes later she shows up at the bar and before she had any drinks she says shit like "we have to find you a girl nick". wtf is that? after she had a few beers, she wouldn't stop flirting with me, she must have punched my arm 10 times by the end of the night, which is nothing like her. seriously, the most physical attention i'v gotten from her is a fist bump and high/low five. i have a really awesome time with her and i really thought i had a chance. i make her laugh constantly. maybe i just need someone to tell me like it is. a 3rd party with whom doesn't know any of us. and perhaps i'm seeing something that isn't there. either way my plan is to start flirting with pretty much every chick i find attractive at work. do a 180. so that way i either find a replacement or illicit some time of response from her. i appreciate anyone who reads all that and has an opinion for me, in time i hope i can contribute to the family, but jesus i'll be reading this forum forever with the plethora of pua knowledge. thanks again. nick |
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