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Author:  Century100 [ Thu Mar 10, 2011 4:55 am ]
Post subject:  Met a girl who thinks im cool/funny. What next?
Sorry for the essay below. Any advice on the following is appreciate immensely..

DA BACKGROUND:
Ive known her for 2 days, and today she came up to me to start talking.
She laughs heaps at 95% of my jokes (but i think she just laughs a lot in general) and has said "Youre really cool!" (because Ive shown her a few magic tricks (haha) and demonstrated that Im able to make friends quickly)

She also added me on fb.
She likes me as a person, im 100% sure, but how do i get her to like me sexually?
I was touching her a little bit today, like I touched her thigh when saying "HEY that reminds me" (not in a sexual way, but sort of in an enthusiastic way)

Also, I put my arm around her when she did something stupid and said something like "there there", and she let me and leant on my shoulder (while laughing. She was in the histeric mood which happens when you get someone to laugh enough times and they just dont stop)



DA CATCH:
Im pretty crappy at reading signs. Probably because I doubt myself in a way.

DA QUESTIONS:
Firstly, am I in already? Or if not, how do i know she doesnt just see me as a "cool guy" and sees me more as "the guy" she wants to date?
Author:  0uch [ Thu Mar 10, 2011 9:44 am ]
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She is attracted to you already.

Now you need a reason to be attracted to her. Start qualifying her. Get to know her. Listen to what she is saying and comment. Give her validation also if she needs it. Trust me, falling for a girl because of who she is, instead of her look is extremely powerful.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Mar 10, 2011 11:18 am ]
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She wants you to lead her comfortably and confidently towards sex.

Show that you find her SEXUALLY attractive and are ROMANTICALLY interested in her ASAP, before she has the opportunity to view your lack of sexual escalation as disinterest or cowardice.

Invite her out on a 1-on-1 date and SHOW her you're interested by

i. Kino
ii. Eye contact
iii. Telling her she looks sexy to you
iv. Bringing up sexual topics
v. Talking about deeper things and giving her compliments about those aspects of her personality that you find attractive
vi. Kissing her (if she rejects your kiss the first couple of times, it means NOTHING. Just don't let it affect you, keep talking, and try again later.)

However, giving her a few compliments does NOT mean you should
x. Agree with everything she says
x. Be afraid to make fun of her
x. Ask her what she wants to do
x. Ask her if it's ok to kiss her
x. Be a fucking pussy

Go into this with the 100% belief that she wants you to fuck her. You just have to set the conditions such that she enjoys herself and is comfortable with you, there is sexual tension, and that she'll know you're non-judgmental, not using her just for sex, and she will not be considered a slut for sleeping with you.

WEAR A CONDOM!
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Thu Mar 10, 2011 12:36 pm ]
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Quote:
x. Be a fucking pussy
priceless! as usual! good post! 8)
Author:  Century100 [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 3:43 am ]
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awesome responses, thanks a lot :)
But this is what i never seem to understand, and its my biggest problem with getting girls:

-Just because she laughs and lets me touch her, how is that enough to let me know she would be happy for me to date her?
How do you know that maybe she just isnt like that to every guy? or that she wouldnt respond the same to touch from any other guy?

Like, how do you know shes not just a nice person, who is being her normal nice self?
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 11:03 am ]
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Quote:
awesome responses, thanks a lot :)
But this is what i never seem to understand, and its my biggest problem with getting girls:

-Just because she laughs and lets me touch her, how is that enough to let me know she would be happy for me to date her?
How do you know that maybe she just isnt like that to every guy? or that she wouldnt respond the same to touch from any other guy?

Like, how do you know shes not just a nice person, who is being her normal nice self?
Stop overthinking. This is a "problem" entirely of your own creation - made in your head, by you, that's holding you back. Just stop it.

If you spend your whole life worrying like this you will never do anything.

If YOU like her, then you should escalate. That's all the matters.

What she's thinking, how she acts with other guys, etc. is IRRELEVANT.

Just go into EVERY interaction ASSUMING the girl is attracted to you. It's a lot easier and simpler. If she honestly, really truly doesn't like you, it'll be fairly obvious. In this case - SHE WANTS TO FUCK YOU. Now get her on a date and have fun!
Author:  Physicist [ Sat Mar 12, 2011 12:06 am ]
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Posting as a thread watch.
Author:  Century100 [ Sat Mar 12, 2011 12:33 am ]
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Alright! sounds excellent
thanks a shitload
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