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Author:  halo9909 [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 8:19 pm ]
Post subject:  need help ,losing a girl
Well there was this girl i became good friends with at the beginning of the semester so like January this year, well we been hanging out literally everyday sine we live on campus, well I know i am an afc since its like 2 full months and nothing has happened,
well but I think she is showing interest in my roommate, which is horrible, i need to win her back

I need help, she has recently started ignoring my texts recently, more and more but I never call her out on it.
I just dont want to lose her
Author:  Cash2 [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 8:40 pm ]
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bro, you are in the "friendzone" since its been 2 months and you haven't escalated or anything plus she's showing interest in your roommate.

don't be a victim of the worst disease in pick up - "oneitis" !!

just be friends with her and try to use her as your social proof, or a pivot or anything, you can get her to introduce you to some really hot friends of hers.

if you want to make the most out of the situation, as u said she's interested in your room mate, get these 2 hooked up, the girl will then be more than ready to help you in your endeavors !!

all the best :)
Author:  halo9909 [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 9:08 pm ]
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well i just dont want to lose her and I dont know who to explain it
how would i escalate now
i asked yesterday night the two of us should go out to dinner this week and no answer,
she has been ignoring my texts recently
and she is a hb8 but has not really any other hb friends lots of girl drama occurred and thats how it is
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 9:14 pm ]
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PYCO
Author:  johanwhite [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 9:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: need help ,losing a girl
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Well there was this girl i became good friends with at the beginning of the semester so like January this year, well we been hanging out literally everyday sine we live on campus, well I know i am an afc since its like 2 full months and nothing has happened,
well but I think she is showing interest in my roommate, which is horrible, i need to win her back

I need help, she has recently started ignoring my texts recently, more and more but I never call her out on it.
I just dont want to lose her
Every guy has been through a situation like this,
this might sound harsh but you have to be cold to her a neg her for a week or two aka bring her back to the attract phase. Practice some closed body language when she comes around, but dont be bitter.

She might just be trying to get you to man up by showing interest in your roommate.
Author:  w0lf137 [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 9:57 pm ]
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I know man. It hurts. But remember this feeling. In 2 years when you'll be a PUA, you'll think back and laugh till your sides hurt.

Damage control is hard but not impossible. There's no hard feelings. She just sees that you have a lower value now.

Alter the way she sees you. She should feel like she's missing out on you. Wear different clothes - buy a leather jacket, nice sunglasses, well grooming. Start doing fun stuff you can talk about with friends but she happens to overhear you. "Yea I went to the concert, so many girls showed off their b**bs." Build value - hang out with different girls, talk about different girls while she overhears (jealousy plot). Talk about how you love your family (protector).

Happen to lose her phone number by accident. You needed room in your phone so you deleted so many random #s. It's not your falr. It just happened. Your a popular guy.

Your basically building value. Once she's attractive to you again, you have to start building comfort again. Then don't do the same mistake again. You need to push sexually. No more "just friends." Good Luck
Author:  Strick [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 10:05 pm ]
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stop texting her and whatever you do, DON'T call her out on it. Act as if it's no big deal.

Quick question for you though. Your roomate. Whenever she came over or ya'll hung out (as a group). Did you guys have it pre-determined that you were after her? For him to not act or run "game" on her?

See what that got for him?
Author:  ltpqz [ Tue Mar 08, 2011 11:29 pm ]
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One of my friends is a natural and he could pull off some crazy shit, He went to this girl's room (who LJBFed him) and was just like "hey, let's go. we're going on a date." and she was like blah blah I have nothing to wear. And he just went into her closet and said "you have plenty to wear. here wear this." They dated for like a year. So if you act like a man, it's salvageable.
Author:  halo9909 [ Thu Mar 10, 2011 3:15 pm ]
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stop texting her and whatever you do, DON'T call her out on it. Act as if it's no big deal.

Quick question for you though. Your roomate. Whenever she came over or ya'll hung out (as a group). Did you guys have it pre-determined that you were after her? For him to not act or run "game" on her?

See what that got for him?
Yeah I never called her out since I read that somewhere so it meant like I didnt care, and
should I continue ignoring some of her messages,
Everyone on my floor knows Im after her, and her knows as well

I thought of this, would it be bad to just ask one of her girlfriends about her with stuff like is she single or what she looks for.

and what are some negs, like I know not directly on her appearance,
like she just got back from the gym, and like oh so someones trying to lose weight but she knows she isnt fat
Author:  halo9909 [ Thu Mar 10, 2011 4:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: need help ,losing a girl
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Quote:
Well there was this girl i became good friends with at the beginning of the semester so like January this year, well we been hanging out literally everyday sine we live on campus, well I know i am an afc since its like 2 full months and nothing has happened,
well but I think she is showing interest in my roommate, which is horrible, i need to win her back

I need help, she has recently started ignoring my texts recently, more and more but I never call her out on it.
I just dont want to lose her
Every guy has been through a situation like this,
this might sound harsh but you have to be cold to her a neg her for a week or two aka bring her back to the attract phase. Practice some closed body language when she comes around, but dont be bitter.

She might just be trying to get you to man up by showing interest in your roommate.

im hoping shes trying to get me to man up is there anyway i can tell
Author:  halo9909 [ Fri Mar 11, 2011 4:36 pm ]
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Well last night, actually all of yesterday I did not text her at all and I made sure I did not see her most of the day, but I knew she did come to my room since She never logged out of her FB account at like 3pm but at like 10pm she came over, and was like way to not text me at all today, and then we started watching make it or break it, which has a good amount of sexual references.
Not sure if it was my roomate that made her come over or what..
Author:  halo9909 [ Sun Mar 13, 2011 4:12 pm ]
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bump
need help please
Author:  halo9909 [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 12:14 pm ]
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help is still needed
Author:  Mack 2.0 [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 12:50 pm ]
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What help do you need? I didn't see a question or request in your last post. :)
Author:  afcAL [ Wed Mar 16, 2011 4:32 pm ]
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There are two things you can do right now and both of them may cost you this girl.
As said before, you need to gather a good deal of social proof before hanging out with her, which means getting some distance from her (she will not notice the transformation otherwise).
Your other option is to think of something extraordinary for you two to do; a venue she never been to that serves unusual food or a comedy club with your (or her) favorite comedian. Flirt all the way through as if its not a big deal.

remember though, nothing will kill your chances with this girl faster than desperately clinging on to her
besides, i bet you will see at least a dozen higher quality girls at the library or a dining hall

Al
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