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Author:  ZakMak [ Mon Mar 07, 2011 4:50 am ]
Post subject:  Long distance one-itis
So, there is this girl that i've like for a little over half the year now. we have only seen each other 3 times over this time because she goes to university 6 hours away from me but we live in the same city in the summer and over breaks etc.. and I'm prety into her. I told my oneitis' friend that I had a crush on my oneitis and the information got back to her. About a week ago we went to a club with about 15 of our mutual friends. I ignored her for 25 minutes and tried to be the center of attention and win over her two guys friends which I did with humor(I'm stand-up comedian).

Later in the night we had a 15 minute really personal deep conversation about her family and I was making sure to initiate a lot of physical contact. She then proceeded to make me takes shots with her and we left for the club. I did my own thing for a while at the club included getting a hot blondes phone number. Later we were sitting next to each other and got up and started dancing closely eventually our foreheads were touching and we were about to make out.

Before we started making out she told me she likes me. I expressed how I thought this was cool lol. She then started saying how we live so far away from each other. I told her not to worry about how far away she lived and we made out. After making out she talked again about how we live so far away while she was saying this she could not keep her hands off of me she was holding my face and putting her hands on my chest in a sexual way.

That night she gave me her number and told me to text her the next day. When I texted her she acted as if she forgot everything that happened last night even though I never brought up any of this stuff(she was quite drunk that night). I asker her if she wanted to hang out and she said the rest of her break is packed( there was 3 days of spring break left ). and that shes coming back to my city in two weeks but made no solid plans to hang out.

First what does her reaction to this night mean probably. Also, is there a way to get into a relationship with this girl?
Author:  Maxovic [ Mon Mar 07, 2011 8:51 am ]
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Hello dear Zakmak,

Thanks for your story, pretty interesting story man! Sounds pretty romantic that you did make out with her after a one itis from a half year! Well i will tell you what her reaction means.

She is clearly into you, don't worry about that. When a human being is drunk it always tells the truth ^^ Don't forget that :p The reaction has nothing to do with you and her feelings for you. She is just a shame of herself because she didn't make out with you when she wasn't drunk and she did when she was drunk :p Just shame man.

On the question if there is a chance to get in a relationship with this girl? Well that's hard to tell. You probably want it because of your one itis :p But the main thing is do not let her notice that you need her. Just act very cool about the whole situation. Don't try to discuss this stuff with her on msn hotmail or textmess. Talk with her about it when you 2 are together. Untill that time just act cool. Talk about cool stuff.

I hope this will help you man :) I feel for you. But remeber. Don't get hurt if she don't want to be in a long distance relationship with you. So try to feel that you don't need her because there is a chance you will get hurt :) But remeber, there are plenty enough of fish in the sea :D

Goodluck!

-M.
Author:  ZakMak [ Mon Mar 07, 2011 8:52 pm ]
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Wow man this helps a lot, it's hard to put perspective on something when your emotionally invloved. Thanks a lot brother and I have a feeling this is gonna work out lol.
Author:  Maxovic [ Mon Mar 07, 2011 9:02 pm ]
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Wow man this helps a lot, it's hard to put perspective on something when your emotionally invloved.
Haha i know right! For me it's "easy" to give you advice right now. But when i had my big fucked up one itis... Daaaaamn i was emotionally insane! XD Glad to hear that i helped you out a lil bit :) Just keep me informed of any developments (through pm)

Greetz :D
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