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| Author: | insigniadeck [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 7:42 am ] |
| Post subject: | how effective is playing hard to get? |
lets just say u hit it off with a girl,you guys are having a great time and you know she really likes you,you guys have been talking and hanging out alot. so before anything suddenly you becomes aloof and stop calling her,so when she texts you,if its not important you take your time before replying or you reply with a yes no kind of short text. if she calls, you still act friendly enough but u say u r buzy and will talk to her soon when possible. is this effective in making a girl chasing you?if theres a better way please do advice..tq in advance. |
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| Author: | insigniadeck [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 4:57 pm ] |
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seriously?no ideas so far? |
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| Author: | Maikuljay [ Fri Mar 04, 2011 1:02 am ] |
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Acting cool and "unavailable" is always going to be better in the long run than coming across needy and desperate..this is a given, you already know the answer to this.. So let's see what your really trying to ask. "How best do I trick a girl into thinking i'm a desirable and high value man.. and that she needs to chase me.. " There is no real "QUALITY" answer to this.. as your looking for a band-aid solution. Plenty of people will tell you that "oh do this, and that!" and yeah you'll get results.. but they wont be consistent or sustainable because it's a matter of time before the self shines on through.. It is likely, that as it is all a charade, you are going to have a problem conveying this the way you want to be seen. It will inevitably come across fake and you'll actually suffer when things don't go the way you want them too.. Having abundance remove's the need for validation.. The Idea of "playing hard to get" is immature IMO and should be reserved for 14 year old girls... you shouldn't need to "play hard to get" you should be!.. make your life fulfilled, busy, more than 1 girl so that when the txt comes your pre-occupied and it's is Ernest when you respond. When she calls, she literally has not been on your mind, much because you have 3-4 or 10 girls holding equal space. If you don't have this right now... Shift your focus, meet more people, be busier the chicks will come if you increase approaches.. your focus needs not be on How best to SEEM hard to get, it should be... How do I make myself hard to get!.. if you don't take this path you will be manipulating and eventually setting yourself up for a fall. |
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