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| Author: | The Ultimate [ Wed Mar 02, 2011 2:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Girls Dancing For My Attention But I Dont Know What To Do |
I'm above average looking, so when I am in a club, I get girls wanting my attention just for the sake of boosting their ego, and even just to get a thrill from brushing me off after hooking me when I act like an AFC. The clubs are often too loud to say much in so I was thinking of experimenting with some push/pull physical acts, such as spinning them around by the hand and walking away/pushing them away. What would be some other good push/pull physical acts? What else could I do without speaking too much. It's all about active disinterest with these types isnt it? Help me guys! I'm desperate to lose my AFC ways |
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| Author: | The Ultimate [ Wed Mar 02, 2011 10:22 pm ] |
| Post subject: | come on |
responses please guys |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 12:34 am ] |
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Good post-surprised no response. I've been faced with this before. So funny that I consider myself "the master of club game". But few years ago,I was at Club Savoy in my island having a good time. 3 girls were dancing right infront of me-literally vying for my friggin' attention! I stood there like a pussy for over 15 min. Actually,1 of the HB's said loudly to the others,"He must be gay or something". I dont know what the hell happened to me that night. But active disinterest is a major part of my club gaming. It's actually the main ingredient to my PU style. Now,what would I do or usually do when girl(s)are dancing near for my attention? I pull her(them)to me. Not to grind on her but to whisper something the her ears. There's a community rule which says you should'nt peck(lean in excessively). I agree totally. So to combat that,you pull the target into you instead. So she's the one leaning in and confrontng you in essence. That' what I do all the time-grab her hand(finger)and pull her to me and say to her something like this,"You think you can dance better than me.Show me what you got". It's a slight neg & active disinteret in one. Im insinuating that she cannot dance better than me-thus the neg. I'd then let her hand go(push her off)-showing more active disinterest. Let her dance(for me)for like 10 sec.Then pull her back to me. It's the essence of push-pull & dance-floor flirting. That approach works for me 100% of the times. Do I get the lay 100% of the times?No! But I'd never had a chicc recoil or pull away from me doing that. If she's not interested,of course she's gonna reject you and pull away. Bu once you'd guaged that the girl(s) trying to get your attention,there's no way on Earth she'd reject you pulling her to you. But warning! If she's with friends,at least take 2 of them by the hand. If you grab just 1 girl out the set,there's a 50/50 chance she'd pull back just to not appear to be easy around her friends(anti-slut defense). So in such case,you may have to pull her and her friend and say something like,"Hey,which 1 of yall is the better dancer?Let me guess". Then point to the target's friend as being the better dancer. So you're allowing the target to fight for your attention more(however subtely). |
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| Author: | The Ultimate [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 10:16 pm ] |
| Post subject: | thanks |
Good plannings me thinks. How about if only one is dancing real near you... could I grab her and say "hey, could you move out the way, you're friend is a really good dancer" with a cheesie wink or something, or is that too harsh? What about "I just wanted to tell you that you're the second best dancer in the club" ha ha ha. "You're the sexiest girl I've seen in the last 10 minutes" *push* |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Fri Mar 04, 2011 4:40 pm ] |
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@The Ultimate-Thanks for the props. The "get out the way line" is cool,as long as you communicate playfulness. The smirk/sly smile would be cool for neutralizing it. "I just wanted t tell you that you're the second best dancer". Lol,I have to laugh at that line because I'd use that about 4 year ago in a club and end up getting a SNL(same-night lay at my hotel). All the AFC's a player types were hovering around this 1 girl(HB9),neaing up on her trying to grind on her while she keeps brushing them off slightly. Literally 15 guys hounding this girl. I ignored her and went to the bar(while being consciously aware of her). She got fed up of the AFC's begging for dances so she went to a semi-secluded area near the entrance. I walked up to her(from the side)and said to her with an alpha smile on my face,"You know what,you cannot dance better than I can.So you're the second best dancer in here to me". Then I just walked away. She literally stalked me afterwads. I wrote a fully-detailed post about the field report/f-close maybe 2 years ago on this forum. I didnt get to lay her because I didnt have any fucking condoms(lol)-neither did she!! Well,got a blowjob instead(lol). Anyway,my point is,your line about the girl being 2nd.best dancer is golden and it works. WHY? It's a subtle neg & false disqulifier in one. This' why I love indirect game. 99% of those guys in the clubs are going direct from saying things like,"I like you,you're a good dancer,etc". I am the only guy in clubs not going direct and telling HB10's that they cannot dance. Only time I recommend going direct,is when you know the girl's about to blow,she's visibly horny,she's overtly sexual via drinking & lights,etc. But if the girl's not even warm yet,she's just dancing,she isnt horny via body language,then indirect game works best. . |
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