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| Author: | Fireball [ Sun Feb 27, 2011 7:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Best way to set up a second date? |
Do you call? Text? If you text, do you wait for her to confirm, or if she says nothing does that mean she doesn't disagree and therefore will be there? |
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| Author: | LetsJump [ Sun Feb 27, 2011 8:35 pm ] |
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A second date usually should have been set up on the first date, if it went well. If you think it did, call her. |
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| Author: | rebel.without.a.cause [ Mon Feb 28, 2011 1:45 am ] |
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I don't think you should ever setup a second date on the first date, only under very rare conditions if the women is totally into you and only if she initiates it. Never initiate something like that on the date, especially a first one. In my humble opinion and experience, if a date went well, the women will typically text you first. If you text her and there is no response at all, you're usually cooked. In those situations, I like to wait like a week and then maybe text something like "hey, I know you really like me but you gotta stop texting me so often", if you get a response, then I like to setup something social, and just be like "me and a couple buddies are going to X place Saturday night, why don't you and you girlfriends come meet us". If she says no or whatever then it's cool you're done. If shes into it, then game on and you can meet her at a club have a drink and take it from there. Worse case scenario you get some good social proof. Otherwise if you make a plan with a women and she agrees, just assume its on, if you start texting for confirmation she will take that as wussy behavior and probably cancel the date last minute. |
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| Author: | Saint1990 [ Mon Feb 28, 2011 1:53 am ] |
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Dude it depends what you chatted about on the first date. If doing something else came up in conversation, i would say mention it in a casual text. Have you been in contact since your first date? If you havn't spoken to her since i would drop her a quick call, ask her how she is doing, and say something like " I Just saw (Insert personal fact or affiliated object that she would know from first date personal to her) and thought about you, what you up to on ... day? Want to catch up for lunch/ a drink or something?" Regards, Saint |
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