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| Author: | IsraeliDude [ Fri Feb 25, 2011 8:25 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Seduced by my best friend, what now? |
Hey Guys, My Best friend broke up with her bf this Sunday night, later that night around 11 11:30 i got a call from her, she stopped by, we smoked a j around the block and walked into my house. We sat for like 10 min talking and she suggested we watch a movie, so she moved to the bed and i put on lil fockers. While i am putting the movie on she asked me to give her massage, i assumed it was just a quick massage but turned out she wanted to use oil and took off her shirt, still in privacy not really hinting anything. We know each other for a few good years now and massages are nothing serious. But as i give her a massage, she requested it becomes a full body massage and turned around to me. Ill be honest shes not really really hot but she is quite sexy and i was always attracted to her, but i wasn't expecting that in a lifetime. So we had our fun for a lil while, and after we were done, we watched the last 20 min or so of the movie. But she seemed really distant after the sex and kinda laid down with her hands crossed. The movie ended i walked her downstairs, said goodnight and went to sleep. I didn't call her the day after and on Tuesday we spoke, she came and chill with me at a bar next to our schools, and from there we didn't speak about it and just acted as usual. The thing is, she is completely in love with her BF. They have been dating over a year and acted as if they live together. She is quite sad right now and still under the constant dilemma of whether she wants him back or not. You know what i mean the usual i want to be with him, but he is not what im really looking for and what if he'll change etc etc.... I am not sure what she was looking for when she escalated to sex, i think she just wanted a rebound to see if it will help her get over him. Or she was really horny that night and somehow with the massage she just wanted some satisfaction. She is my best friend and i love her as my freind. We been through a lot together and we always there for each other. We chill together at least 4-5 times a week and we chill with the same people on constant bases. She was always there for me, especially two months ego when my GF broke up with me after a year and a half. So every fuckup i might make with her might cause big drama since she is really involved in my life and my friends. the thing is the sex was amazing. She did all the things i liked without even guiding her and she is so confident in bed she don't mind to get freaky. I would really love to make it a usual thing cuz ill be honest, so many girls are so bad at sex (the funny thing is that its always hear girls complain about guys. like the fact that they laying there like dead wood really suppose to keep us turned on). The problem is, im also her best freind, and she keep on talking and consulting me on what to do with her BF. And i can't seem to be able to just keep him out of her mind long enough to create another sexual frame. I don't think i should talk to her about making it something usual, but rather turn her on and try and make it happen without a lot of preparation. I am also worried that when i try to escalate it myself this time, she would reject me cuz it seem like she is on her way to her BF arms pretty soon. Sorry i wrote a scroll i just thought i should explain the situation in details so i would get insights that would help. So what do you guys think? Give me some insights. Should i talk to her about it, should i just wait to see whats going on with her BF, should i try to make things funny sexual and just bring her over, should i be direct and just tell her lets fuck (or something similar) ? |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Fri Feb 25, 2011 10:23 pm ] |
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Hmmm... that's very complicated. I think you should decide a goal first of all. Do you want an FB or a best friend? Once you decide between the two everything else will become clear. There may be a way to make her both but I don't have any answers for that. |
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| Author: | IsraeliDude [ Fri Feb 25, 2011 11:28 pm ] |
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Quote: Hmmm... that's very complicated. I think you should decide a goal first of all. Do you want an FB or a best friend? Once you decide between the two everything else will become clear.
Logically i understand what you saying, sex change the dynamics. However we have a really good connection, and we already had sex but continued after that to chill and enjoy each other company.There may be a way to make her both but I don't have any answers for that. Do you guys think it was just a rebound, or maybe she had something for me for a while and she just went with it? |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Sat Feb 26, 2011 7:52 am ] |
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she has something for you... it starts with v and rhymes with agina |
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| Author: | Kupid [ Sat Feb 26, 2011 11:02 am ] |
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I don't know what to advise, because I've never been in that situation, so don't take this too seriously  But I think that sex and friendship can go together hand in hand, and if you manage to have sex with her, just one or two times it'll become a habbit and it'll repeat itself. Just try to do that massage again and escelate in to the bedroom 
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Sat Feb 26, 2011 9:54 pm ] |
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1. broke up with boyfriend 2. found you and fucked you 3. acted sad and distant um...rebound |
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| Author: | Snake Doctor [ Sun Feb 27, 2011 3:52 am ] |
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Yeap rebound guy when her void fills up again she will cut the sex. |
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| Author: | IsraeliDude [ Sun Feb 27, 2011 10:04 pm ] |
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Thanks guys, Yea i think she was just horny and wanted a rebound. The way i see it now she is heading back to her BF Too bad, sex was really great i wish i could keep it going... Never mind i guess, on to the next one lol.... |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Sun Feb 27, 2011 10:19 pm ] |
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boyfriend destroyer. |
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| Author: | ajaxluka [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 9:40 am ] |
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Best friends are much rarer than sex is, keep it to the rebound and stay friends. |
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