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Author:  Hermeezey [ Fri Feb 25, 2011 5:35 am ]
Post subject:  How to get her to start Qualifying herself
Hi guys.

I'm having a bit of a hitch with getting girls to qualify themselves. I mean, is there a specific way to ask the question and to draw it out? I don't want to just ask generic stuff like "so what do you do?" "What are you interested in?"

any suggestions or comments would be great
Author:  Jack Jericho [ Fri Feb 25, 2011 7:36 am ]
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Say something like

"So what do you have going for you besides your miley cyrus looks?"

Its a playful neg and it gets her qualifying

J. Jericho
Author:  CountRedRover [ Fri Feb 25, 2011 8:14 am ]
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"Oh wow! where did you get that necklace? my sisters birthday is coming up and I'm sure she'd love something like that?"
Author:  Tao of Talk [ Sat Feb 26, 2011 2:55 am ]
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My Bread and Butter Qualification line has always been this (It's stock, but it works great):

"So, I'll admit it -- you're kind of cute. But a lot of girls here are. And Beauty fades: congratulations, you got lucky in the gene pool. Anyone can do that... Can you give me three reasons to hang out with you, that don't have anything to do with your looks?"

Style used this when he was Picking Up Jessica Alba on Late Night w/ Jimmy Kimmel -- I've yet to see it fail when I've opened sets. When you challenge what a woman considers her greatest asset, she will be quick to defend herself and qualify herself to you.

Also, depending if you're in Attraction or Comfort, you can challenge her on her points: "Oh.. so you're spontaneous? Prove it."
Author:  Kupid [ Sat Feb 26, 2011 11:22 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How to get her to start Qualifying herself
Quote:
Hi guys.

I'm having a bit of a hitch with getting girls to qualify themselves. I mean, is there a specific way to ask the question and to draw it out? I don't want to just ask generic stuff like "so what do you do?" "What are you interested in?"

any suggestions or comments would be great
Firstly do little qualification hoops for her, start with:

- Small hoops (positive women stereotypes) Are you adventurous/fun/spontaneous/good friend...
- Medium hoops (She has a chance to blow you off if she wants) Why are you special/What kinda of things do you enjoy...
- Large hoops (You are trying to get more emotional with her) Name 3 things that want me to get to know you better/What do you got going for more than your looks/When was the first time you got drunk...

[Credit: Sinn ;):D]

Each time you ask her one of this qualification hoops make a topic of conversation on it and leading questions the one that can't be answer with yes/no. If you run out of things to say be observational and don't ask but try to make a statement (e.g.: Question: ''What do you do'' /// Statement: ''You look like a lawyer'') You get the picture :D
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