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| Author: | DeputySam [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 6:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Dilema - Advice appreciated. Dating another girl |
Hi All, New to the forum but not the game. But I've got a dilema I've not dealt with before so would like some advices on how to deal with this. Basically been in a relationship with my current g/f for about a year. I can't fault her personality but I will admit I have gone off having sex with her and my eye keeps roaming. At this moment in time I do not want to split up with her because although I've gone off sex with we get on so very well in most other areas. Anyway got chatting to a really cute sales girl in the shopping mall recently and I've got her number and we are going to arrange meeting up for a drink. The big question is what, if anything, do I tell her about my g/f? Do I play the honesty game and admit I have a g/f but am unhappy in certain areas, do I pretend to be single and see how it goes or do I up her interest in a very gamey way by admitting I have a g/f so would just like to be friends for the moment. Also I'm in my late 30's but look lots younger and this girl must be in her early 20's so should I play my age down a bit? I'm aware I maybe about to cheat on my g/f and I already feel bad for that but I know that given the chance it's going to happen anyway. |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 6:37 pm ] |
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lemme see if i have this right? you are in a committed monogamous relationship with your "girlfriend" who by your own explanation is a pretty decent person, ( by that i mean, she is under the impression you two are exclusive, no? ) and you are asking us for advice on how to go forward and cheat on her? i just want to make sure i understand. |
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| Author: | DeputySam [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 6:52 pm ] |
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What I want to do is see this other girl and see where it goes first. If we really hit it off and it went serious I would split with my current g/f. If I landed up cheating on her because the new girl just wants fun then yes I guess I would because I've completely gone off sex with my current g/f. The question what to do with girl 2, do i tell her from the start that i have a g/f knowing that it might end right there or do I play her a bit more to see what she's about first because when we go for a drink she's bound to ask me about g/f's. |
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