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Author:  Justin Rockwell [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 4:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Become the social center of attention.
I'm sorta new to PUA.

I have no problem talking to girls and being around them and all that, I just feel like I have nothing interesting to talk about once I open a random set. I feel like I need to memorize routines maybe? Or create Real-experience DHV stories. Basically what I'm asking is what do you guys think I can do to become more interesting so I can become the AMOG when opening a set?

Thanks in advance, gangstaz.
Author:  The Gecko [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 4:39 pm ]
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Im always the center of attention but it is just because being funny comes naturally to me

But what I do is I make witty observations then chain thoughts together until I think of a story that pertains to it. Ive done so much just utterly retarded shit in my life I have tons of hilarious stories to use
Author:  Justin Rockwell [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 4:55 pm ]
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I'm funny without trying usually, and I can chain thoughts together no problem haha. I don't know what it is, but when I have conversations with people I feel like they feel bored and I'm almost worrying about what to say next. One thing I haven't tried is throwing in an FTC, so maybe I'll try that. I think I'm gonna go check out some routines or something too.
Author:  The Gecko [ Mon Feb 21, 2011 11:18 pm ]
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If your really worried let the conversation die down

they they eagerly strike it back up then your money

If they dont then that is your queue to hit the bricks
Author:  LegitAlfa [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 4:01 am ]
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Go outside and talk to girls.
Author:  Sofrito [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 5:39 am ]
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I believe cajun in his men's room interview suggested memorizing a couple of routines (maybe 1-2) so just in case the convo dies down or you run out of things to say you can go to them to try and jolt it back to life. Personally I have tried this and it helps a lot.
Author:  Kupid [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 3:08 pm ]
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I believe cajun in his men's room interview suggested memorizing a couple of routines (maybe 1-2) so just in case the convo dies down or you run out of things to say you can go to them to try and jolt it back to life. Personally I have tried this and it helps a lot.
I agree with that, the point is, that you want to be naturally funny and in case the conversation dies, you just run a routine or a prepared story or something like that. :D

Also for keeping the conversation (interesting) you can make two things:

- Ask leading questions (question with no yes/no answer) and if she sais something, you ask her a question one her answer (conversation topic) and you two bo back and forth :)
- Instead of questions make statements (Question: What are your hobbies?)(Statement: You look like you're into snowboarding/martial arts/...)

Anyway as long as you're talking and it is interesting you're money
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Feb 22, 2011 3:29 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Become the social center of attention.
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what do you guys think I can do to become more interesting so I can become the AMOG when opening a set?
Get a fucking LIFE.

Seriously. You could spend hours every night crafting "dhv routines" (e.g. LIES) about crazy times you've had, girls you know, holidays you've been on, hobbies you do, or you can actually GO OUT AND DO THOSE THINGS!

Sasha told a story of a friend of his who was a really nice guy, but spent all his free time playing video games. One time he comes home, and sure enough the guy is sitting in front of a screen just pressing the spacebar over and over again? On the screen is a black guy flexing his biceps.

"What are you doing?" he asked
"Oh, in this game I want to go on a date with this girl, but I need to goto the gym first and get built enough, and then I can go out with her." His friend replied
"Uh, why don't you actually go to the gym in REAL LIFE, and then actually go out on an actual date with a REAL WOMAN?"
"....fuck that!"

You wanna be that guy? No, you don't.

If you're already naturally funny, then put yourself into random situations every day, and then your DHV stories are telling the story of the time you did X and Y random thing and everybody got wet or the girl punched you in the face or the police came, etc.

If you're going around pursuing your interests, meeting new people and getting involved in social events ALL THE TIME, then you never need to worry "what can I talk about" - you'll be bursting at the seams to tell anyone who'll listen about all this crazy stuff!
Author:  THaywood [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 1:55 am ]
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gotta agree with that, your stories will sound so much more sincere if their true, and you'll enjoy sharing them with people.
Go away now and think of the most interesting or hilarious moments from your life that you can use as anecdotes, and think what kind of conversations would trigger them off.
A whole load of hilarious stuff happened to me while in napa last year (like getting held hostage by some scary cypriot bouncers) so if ever a conversation regarding holidays is floating about, i'll direct it to that story.
Personally I think i need to go out and get some more stories as well, having a life outside of sarging will improve your sarging.
... otherwise what are you gonna talk about with girls? your recent pickup attempts on other girls? NO! :)
Author:  DontHitMelol [ Wed Feb 23, 2011 7:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Become the social center of attention.
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what do you guys think I can do to become more interesting so I can become the AMOG when opening a set?
Get a fucking LIFE.

Seriously. You could spend hours every night crafting "dhv routines" (e.g. LIES) about crazy times you've had, girls you know, holidays you've been on, hobbies you do, or you can actually GO OUT AND DO THOSE THINGS!

Sasha told a story of a friend of his who was a really nice guy, but spent all his free time playing video games. One time he comes home, and sure enough the guy is sitting in front of a screen just pressing the spacebar over and over again? On the screen is a black guy flexing his biceps.

"What are you doing?" he asked
"Oh, in this game I want to go on a date with this girl, but I need to goto the gym first and get built enough, and then I can go out with her." His friend replied
"Uh, why don't you actually go to the gym in REAL LIFE, and then actually go out on an actual date with a REAL WOMAN?"
"....fuck that!"

You wanna be that guy? No, you don't.

If you're already naturally funny, then put yourself into random situations every day, and then your DHV stories are telling the story of the time you did X and Y random thing and everybody got wet or the girl punched you in the face or the police came, etc.

If you're going around pursuing your interests, meeting new people and getting involved in social events ALL THE TIME, then you never need to worry "what can I talk about" - you'll be bursting at the seams to tell anyone who'll listen about all this crazy stuff!
I hope that story was a joke... lol.
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