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| Author: | tonio09 [ Tue Feb 15, 2011 2:11 pm ] |
| Post subject: | "What are we?" |
I've got a girl chasing me and I've set up a prizing frame using cat string theory http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions ... ng-theory/ , where she has to earn me. I've told her embedded in stories that I've got standards and what I'm looking for in a woman, though I've got a feeling that I might do "the PUA prizing too much of Over Qualifying, making him seemingly unattainable" http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions/prizing/ because she tells me I'm awesome, and when I tell her that too she says she is not. She says she doesn't know where she stands and she keeps shit testing me like "what are we" "do you love me" "what do you need". She's got LSE and keeps asking me to tell her how she's qualified herself to me, like "why do you like me" and "this is weird". My response usually alternates between a relationship destroyer routine http://www.seductiontuition.com/IN10SE/ ... ilder.html , 100% love http://www.seductionbase.com/seduction/ ... e/345.html beauty is common http://www.seductiontuition.com/neil-st ... ommon.html , or just telling her "stop playing with me, I don't want to get hurt" or "I'm not looking for a relationship right now, but I'm open to a woman who can change my mind on that". I also try to use bait-hook-reel-release to qualify her. http://www.pualingo.com/pua-definitions ... ease-bhrr/ She usually responds that "i can't change your mind", "i don't have any of the qualities you're looking for", "don't like me" "I can't do this anymore", "*starts crying*", "I don't want to get hurt", "*LJBFs me*" We've been seeing eachother for a while, and I'd like to keep her as a FB. What should I do to stop these shit tests? |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Wed Feb 16, 2011 3:48 am ] |
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not sure they are shit tests bro. She wants to be with you. If you want her as a FB then just say it softly. "I really like what we have right now and I am not ready for anything more. I understand that you want more, lots of people have felt that way in these situations, but this is the best I have to offer, and I think it's good". It's a basic feel, felt, found sale. I understand how you feel. Others have felt this way before. I have found that leaving it as it is will be fine. She will either buy it or not. |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Wed Feb 16, 2011 3:51 am ] |
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ahhh jits, the old sales approach, lol. |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Wed Feb 16, 2011 4:44 am ] |
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haha yes FB is pretty much a sales job. So i'm gonna be fucking you on the steady and doin what I want even though you want to be with me. That's a hell of a sale. |
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| Author: | tonio09 [ Wed Mar 02, 2011 8:06 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Is this a good way? |
Quote: not sure they are shit tests bro. She wants to be with you. If you want her as a FB then just say it softly. "I really like what we have right now and I am not ready for anything more. I understand that you want more, lots of people have felt that way in these situations, but this is the best I have to offer, and I think it's good".
I see. Suppose I want her as my girlfriend. Is it a good way to tell her this by eliciting all her personality traits that I like and match my standard? This is because she keeps asking me what I like about her and why I like her. It basically means a bunch of cold reads one after the other customized to her personality, filtered by my "requirements". Is that not going to give her too much validation? How about Catstring theory, should you continue that in a relationship? It's a basic feel, felt, found sale. I understand how you feel. Others have felt this way before. I have found that leaving it as it is will be fine. She will either buy it or not. What I mean is, what do you say when you agree to be in a realtionship and you make it "official"? |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Thu Mar 03, 2011 12:48 am ] |
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Once you have chosen your frame it is your frame FOREVER!!! loosely quoted from DD in double your dating. "Yes, I am pretty great (smile), but you aren't half bad yourself. I think you bring the best out in me. Let's give this a shot." |
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