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| Author: | Horatio20 [ Sat Feb 12, 2011 11:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Rejection after IOI's |
My mate came to me with a problem and i cant think of any advice to give the poor lad. Basically hes been linking a girl for a while, and finally asks her for a drink...and she replies with ill go for a drink with you as friends. He wants advice how to text her back and play it in the future |
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| Author: | SKSpua [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 12:03 am ] |
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Don't text her back. Your friend needs to move on to another girl with bigger boobs and smaller pores. She's not interested. The good news is there are plenty of women in the world. |
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| Author: | jurupa [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 5:25 pm ] |
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I am confused, what IOI's was shown here? The girl had a drink with your friend to be nice to him. In no way was she interested in him. Also your friend is infatuated with her. |
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| Author: | Melodical [ Sun Feb 13, 2011 8:51 pm ] |
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There is a difference between "as friends" and "as just friends" If it is the latter than there is no hope...in the former? perhaps. On taking the girl out your friend needs to disqualify himself within the first five minutes and lead, lead lead. Pick a venue were the girl is facing you with your back to the wall so there are no distractions. Say to her that you are having a problem meeting the sort of girls you have a connection with and you would like her female input on the matter, you are asking her because you think she is an intelligent, passionate woman. (piggyback a presupposed trait to an accepted one;Cialdini consistancy frame) Your problem is that all the girls who approach you (DHV) don't seem to create any chemistry with you and you want her advice on attracting:Intelligent, adventuress, romantic, sensual women who you just don't seem to encounter. ( Before stating these traits achieve full eye contact looking at her right eye, upon each trait mention switch your gaze to her left eye individually, whilst also pointing gently and subtly at her.(embedded suggestion). After you have listened to her advice offer to fix her up with a friend she would be perfect for (disqualify again) mentioning how you think they would have great chemistry. Finish with the word "chemistry" with a 3 to 4 second pause beforehand while making full eye contact, gently flick or touch her hand and say "do you feel that" (dual reality acceptance frame) then in a joking manner push her away. Attraction is now generated treat it as a normal sarge. |
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| Author: | Horatio20 [ Mon Feb 14, 2011 12:43 pm ] |
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I like the sound of this. My mate is a very good looking lad and the girl will no doubt have been attracted to him. They were txt'ing for a few months however, my friend was relationship of sorts so didnt want to game her. He assures me that he was getting ioi's left right and centre from her however, once plucking up the courage to ask her out for a drink. She says i will go for a drink with you as friends. After this rejection of sorts he decided to ignore the text. He seems pretty hung up on the rejection and has took a confidence blow. Im not sure why she has changed her mind. We came to the conclusion it might be because they are both medic students and see each other a lot during the day and she doesnt want to be with another medic. Its a bit puzzling. But i will paste him your advice and see what he thinks. He told me he will be at a dinner ball on her table soon and was considering being cold with her whilst, being a fun sociable guy at the table, then neg her when she tries to get his attention etc. But i dont know, its a puzzler. |
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