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| Author: | spkid [ Fri Feb 11, 2011 2:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Chinese woman - different culture or dead end? |
Short version of the story: I met a Chinese woman (35) on a dating site (I am 40). She has only been in the US for 5 years. We have only met once in 6 weeks (we live 100 miles apart) but I have been pushing to see her more. She seems disinterested but I've read that traditional Chinese women always play hard to get as it is inappropriate to show interest to early in the game. I think I am at at dead end but she says she's still interested and it will take time to get to know me. Could it be she just won't come out and say she's not interested in pursuing a relationship? Anyway, I was hoping someone might have some insight into Chinese culture and let me know if I am giving up to early. |
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| Author: | StripperD [ Fri Feb 11, 2011 2:56 am ] |
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Hey Spkid, well imo if you think that she is disinterested and not giving you any IOI's what so ever, and on top of that you say that's she's playing hard to get dude your a PUA your the exception to the rules freeze her out, trust me if she's into you she's gona go like wow what the hell is going on why is he not running after me anymore, if not then just drop her and move on. |
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| Author: | GKS [ Fri Feb 11, 2011 3:22 am ] |
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I'm half chinese and I can tell you that is NOT the case here. Culture doesn't play a part in playing hard to get, however asian tend to have more of LMR, that's all. I will take it as her level of interest isnt enough, everyone has their own baggage, she might have some problem she has to take into considerations and maybe the whole 100 miles apart makes her reluctant. Be aloof and don't stress it, freeze her out, and set up a date after, if she doesn't play along, just tell her you gonna move on because it never works unless both party put effort into it. |
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| Author: | spkid [ Wed Feb 16, 2011 4:31 am ] |
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to both responses: Great advice. Freezeout followed by Valentine's Day date worked like a charm. I appreciate the advice. I basically hadn't called her for a week until asking to see her on V-day and was surprised at her high level of interest after giving her a little time to think. Had a great day on Monday. |
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