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| Author: | fearless123 [ Thu Feb 10, 2011 7:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Interesting situation - whats my mindset? |
So this isn't necessarily a pickup scenario but I used pickup techniques to win this girl over thus far and I need help right now with my frame of mind in this situation. I went out with this girl a few times over the past 6 weeks and I know she likes me. (She would tell me I really want to hang out, kiss me, tons of IOI's) Here's the situation: She flaked on me and I asked for a raincheck and she told me on Friday shes going to see her friends band play at a bar and if I would like to come along (I swear this girl plays the game to a T - truly woman are natural pick up artists) I told her that sounds excellent. Now I don't know if this a group setting or just her, I don't know if this friend of hers in this band is some one special and I'm just getting played.... What's my mindset? Should I be touchy feely holding hands with her or just play it cool? If there is a group should I pay more attention to her or win the group over? Again, this is a girl I went out with 3 times so this isn't a day 2 and we both have feelings for eachother but never spoke about them or talked about a relationship. What's my game plan? |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Fri Feb 11, 2011 4:36 am ] |
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I had to make this my "COME BACK" post. That's right, the LEPRECHAUN is back... Now, onto the response... Befriend the group and find another girl in the group that you might be interested in. Start chatting this other girl up, flirting and all the stuff that you have learned. If this girl that you really do like starts acting all jealous, and she will because girls want to have what other girls want. To prove this point, look at it this way. If a girl friend shows another one her friends a diamond ring, her friend wants one too. So just chat up the table, make friends, and if there is not another girl at this table that you might like flirting with, then work the whole room. And make sure that every once in a while, you look at the girl that you do want to see if she is starring at you to see what you are doing, to find out where you are at. She will be keeping a close eye on you. Then again, she might find you flirting up some other girls in the club and come over and start being all "lovey dovey" on you. At this point, it's now time to test out her loyalty to you. Go in for the makeout right there in front of everyone. If she pulls back from it. Then start talking the other girls that are at the table (where ever you might be) and totally ignore that other girl who is only trying to show them that you are hers, when in fact, you are not hers, you are on the market. But the good thing that she has just done for you is to show that other hot girls do want you. She has just given you SOCIAL STATUS that you are now a guy that other girls want, but obviously cannot have. They will have to work for you. And guess what. Girls do like challenging and taking men away from other women. |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Fri Feb 11, 2011 4:44 am ] |
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Dang triple post.. |
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| Author: | LEPRECHAUN [ Fri Feb 11, 2011 4:48 am ] |
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Dang triple post.. |
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| Author: | Existentialist [ Fri Feb 11, 2011 5:09 am ] |
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Triple post, but excellent content! Totally agreed with all the point above, it's the best way to handle the situation and if you pull it off like a champ, it's win win either way. Keep your head high and be confident! |
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