if she says or does anything, just say, "i have a restraining order, back off"
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| Author: | Apocalyptica [ Wed Feb 09, 2011 6:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | How to act meeting your EX with whom you broke up violent |
She will be at the same party tonight. She was a bitch. A real bitch. You cannot even imagine. What to do? (i) ignore and look indifferent to her, not saying hello even if she does? (ii) say hello and smile, as you don't care and move to another spot in club ? thanks |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Wed Feb 09, 2011 6:59 pm ] |
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Just be nice as hell but indifferent and when she starts showing you attention (which she will, and probably in a negative way like insulting you) you can just respond with "I appreciate the attention but I am a little busy at the moment." Sends a powerful message without compromising your character. The other day I didn't do this because I was grumpy and generally off game. I got goaded into a confrontation with an ex that escalated to the point that I pressed into her worst insecurities. She slunk off and apparently had a very self hate filled night. Meanwhile, my bad mood got worse and I was too disgusted with myself to pay attention to having a good time. This is pretty much the worst thing I could have done. |
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| Author: | Apocalyptica [ Wed Feb 09, 2011 7:02 pm ] |
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Thanks But, what to do if she passes by, you see her coming and she isn't keen on saying hello? Should i say hello and smile? Or just nothing. |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Wed Feb 09, 2011 7:51 pm ] |
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if she says or does anything, just say, "i have a restraining order, back off"
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Wed Feb 09, 2011 7:51 pm ] |
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You can play it either way. Do what you think is best! Remember the golden rule... You are the leader they are the follower. |
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| Author: | Apocalyptica [ Wed Feb 09, 2011 8:00 pm ] |
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Ok, i'll try to just casually say hello followed by her name with a high and strong voice tonality. |
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| Author: | Apocalyptica [ Thu Feb 10, 2011 2:05 am ] |
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This is how it went She waved at me when i was talking with a dude. I waved back but without a smile. I danced in her neighbourhood, i met all the people there (kind of alpha), saying all girls and guys hello. She was just standing there with some (girl)friends of her. I looked one time, she was watching how i was greeting a girl. Thats the only time i looked. I just danced with my back turned to her with some friends, guys and girls. 1hr later i turned my back to get a drink, she was left home already. |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Thu Feb 10, 2011 3:08 am ] |
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PERFECT! You avoided any undue conflict that would mess up your game. That is mission accomplished. So, onto the good stuff. How did your PUA go? |
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