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Author:  T.Clean [ Wed Feb 09, 2011 3:23 am ]
Post subject:  Time to leave?
Alrighty guys bit of a description on what was should part of the abundance but I rather nicely messed up :)

Alright so I started seeing this girl very casual except short story for those that don't want to read on I went into AFC mode half way through seeing her, slapped myself and started to PUA again. Though it seems the image of my AFCness is burned into her memory.

Essentially, I started seeing her after she moved back from a different city. All was swell I #closed, then organized a time to meet. Then we met and essentially I went into AFC mode how she managed it I have no idea lol. I bought her tickets to the movies plus the popcorn and what not. Essentially I played like a major AFC. This happened twice till I woke up to what I had done, this point I guess not having to merge back into PUA from AFC I did it practicly instantly when I probably should have eased it in.

After this she became flakey didn't seem as interested, I mean as I woke up and changed my plan of attack I had her pretty good. She text me at like 12 at night saying "hey what's up?". Being a DJ had its benefits, she wanted a song one night, I told her I refused to play it because it just wouldn't fit. Then she started to handle my ass hang of me most of the night. Then later that week she went ultra flakey like with no warning didn't call to say she wasn't gonna go always had something up on days so she would pick the days. At this point I could see the shit tests coming in like wildfire.

At this point I'm looking for a bit of info and possible routes to take. I know I should probably drop it. But at this point I'm enjoying it (as much as I'm not) it's interesting now XD

#Edit I apologized for my grammar and spelling writing on an IPhone sucks
Author:  Jits138 [ Wed Feb 09, 2011 3:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Time to leave?
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Alrighty guys bit of a description on what was should part of the abundance but I rather nicely messed up :)

Alright so I started seeing this girl very casual except short story for those that don't want to read on I went into AFC mode half way through seeing her, slapped myself and started to PUA again. Though it seems the image of my AFCness is burned into her memory.

Essentially, I started seeing her after she moved back from a different city. All was swell I #closed, then organized a time to meet. Then we met and essentially I went into AFC mode how she managed it I have no idea lol. I bought her tickets to the movies plus the popcorn and what not. Essentially I played like a major AFC. This happened twice till I woke up to what I had done, this point I guess not having to merge back into PUA from AFC I did it practicly instantly when I probably should have eased it in.

After this she became flakey didn't seem as interested, I mean as I woke up and changed my plan of attack I had her pretty good. She text me at like 12 at night saying "hey what's up?". Being a DJ had its benefits, she wanted a song one night, I told her I refused to play it because it just wouldn't fit. Then she started to handle my ass hang of me most of the night. Then later that week she went ultra flakey like with no warning didn't call to say she wasn't gonna go always had something up on days so she would pick the days. At this point I could see the shit tests coming in like wildfire.

At this point I'm looking for a bit of info and possible routes to take. I know I should probably drop it. But at this point I'm enjoying it (as much as I'm not) it's interesting now XD

#Edit I apologized for my grammar and spelling writing on an IPhone sucks
So in MM it is referred to as "incongruence" and that is the best word for it. When people act completely differently in two situations it leaves the imagination going crazy trying to figure out what the fuck is going on. Who the hell knows what fantasy she came up with to explain your behavior. All the shit tests are coming cause she is smelling some bullshit. I think the best bet is to replace whatever story she made with one of your making. Just tell her you were feeling _______ on ______ day. whichever way you want spin it.
Author:  T.Clean [ Wed Feb 09, 2011 3:55 am ]
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Hmm I didnt even think of it that way...

And the plan of attack is so simple yet powerful.

Correct me if I'm wrong but how I'v interpreted your reply is blanket the times in which would have sparked the "What the hell is going on" moments with an excuse that will sway in my benefit.

Hmm how would you word such a thing without it sounding like I'm apologising for it though?
Author:  Jits138 [ Wed Feb 09, 2011 4:27 am ]
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Hmm I didnt even think of it that way...

And the plan of attack is so simple yet powerful.

Correct me if I'm wrong but how I'v interpreted your reply is blanket the times in which would have sparked the "What the hell is going on" moments with an excuse that will sway in my benefit.

Hmm how would you word such a thing without it sounding like I'm apologising for it though?
yes that's what I'm saying. I came up with the same problem you are now with apologizing. Maybe be a little alpha about it... "Sometimes I can be a little moody, It's kind of a thing with me. I don't let it slow me down though."

Maybe cheesy... I don't know let's see what the other guys have to say.
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