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Greetings,
I have posted similar issues regarding a female that I have been dating. Do to a recent set-back with a girl, I wanted advice on how to best move forward.
First off, we have been seeing each other for a few weeks. While there was no particular pick up technique I used, I did find the area on confidence and self-esteem to be valuable in getting the initial date. From there the relationship blossomed fairly quickly.
However, as quickly as it blossomed, it has taken a turn for the worse and in her words, she has enjoys hanging out and getting to know but, but it is making her feel overwhelmed. We had a couple romantic nights, sleep overs and f-close.
The turn came last week, when we went drinking and admired the fun we have been having and implied that it felt more than we were just dating. At the time she indicated that it was unfair for me to feel more than.
Since we were drinking that night, we've approached the topic a few days later and we both agreed that we are having fun getting to know each other and hanging out, but she added that she is feeling overwhelmed.
To me that means I gave her the impression I am trying to pressure her into moving faster than I really am. I told her that is certainly not my intent and would rather keep it simple. At this point she said to drop it and we haven't spoken since. I'm not sure if it's her way of getting out of the relationship, since she is worried I will pressure her, or if it is a test to see if I truly feel that way.
I do like this girl and continue to date her as we have. I don't want to give her the vibe of this being something that is overwhelming. She hasn't got mad and will still respond to me at times, but I do sense a coldness. My question is, do you think it's a lost cause or some way to be perceived better and make this work. I would like to keep trying with her since I'm interested, but as an outsider I need some thoughts.
guess my question is, how can I
i highlighted the portion which is missing an essential NOUN.I have posted similar issues regarding a female that I have been dating. Do to a recent set-back with a girl, I wanted advice on how to best move forward.
First off, we have been seeing each other for a few weeks. While there was no particular pick up technique I used, I did find the area on confidence and self-esteem to be valuable in getting the initial date. From there the relationship blossomed fairly quickly.
However, as quickly as it blossomed, it has taken a turn for the worse and in her words, she has enjoys hanging out and getting to know but, but it is making her feel overwhelmed. We had a couple romantic nights, sleep overs and f-close.
The turn came last week, when we went drinking and admired the fun we have been having and implied that it felt more than we were just dating. At the time she indicated that it was unfair for me to feel more than.
Since we were drinking that night, we've approached the topic a few days later and we both agreed that we are having fun getting to know each other and hanging out, but she added that she is feeling overwhelmed.
To me that means I gave her the impression I am trying to pressure her into moving faster than I really am. I told her that is certainly not my intent and would rather keep it simple. At this point she said to drop it and we haven't spoken since. I'm not sure if it's her way of getting out of the relationship, since she is worried I will pressure her, or if it is a test to see if I truly feel that way.
I do like this girl and continue to date her as we have. I don't want to give her the vibe of this being something that is overwhelming. She hasn't got mad and will still respond to me at times, but I do sense a coldness. My question is, do you think it's a lost cause or some way to be perceived better and make this work. I would like to keep trying with her since I'm interested, but as an outsider I need some thoughts.
guess my question is, how can I
was it YOU or HER that "implied" this?
