how do i stop this?
it's like a self-fulfilling prophecy. i work with females all day, customers to be exact. you could say i'm in sales. and a lot of these meetings are time-consuming and one-on-one.
problem is, it always starts with a keen awareness that "this is a female", a moment later "a good looking female", then inevitably some goddamn thing takes over, and i look at their lips, or even further south. i realize i've done it, and then i casually look at other things and make my way back to them (nonchalantly is the word) so as to appear like it's a normal part of scanning my environment.
what is it? genetics? i can be sitting in front of a client/customer, and think "don't look at her tits!" and one-and-a-half seconds later, BING, my eyes go down there!
advice on this?
any input?
not just about how to avoid it? or even if i should try to avoid it? and any other thoughts on STARING AT THE GOODIES!
it's like this:
