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| Author: | EvilAnanazZ [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 1:34 am ] |
| Post subject: | How do I get her to forget her ex |
Hello all. I'm not THAT new to game and pickup, but i'm NOT a pro either. I mostly try to use game to improve my social skills and to get a girl once in a while. I don't like one night stands and i rather have a relationship. So here is the problem: I meet this one girl who I really like. We live in a student town and my best friend is helping her getting in to the student life of this town, it's kind of a "duty" he have to do to new students in his course. So I meet her at the introduction party and we talked very much. I later meet her again at a students club we go to every Thursday. We kept on talking and hitting on eachother and when we meet again on Saturday we made out, quite a lot. It didn't feel like a one night stand and she didn't treat me that way. One week later (This Saturday) we meet again and made out and had fun. However she started to try and avoid kissing me and rather hug me as if she was really sad. I asked her what was wrong and after having a talk it turns out she likes me, but she's in love with her ex boyfriend still and she didn't want to hurt my feelings. We agreed to try and keep our "relationship" to sex only. However i feel that I want to get more if I can. So how do I do to try and make her think less of her EX and more about me. We have not had sex yet, and it's quite hard for us to meet during the days. Where I live everyone goes out on small student clubs and parties, that's usually where you meet people and friends. I tried texting her, but I didn't get much response and I think it's because she's feeling about the ex boyfriend thing, so i stopped texting her (she was no fun!) It's hard to get everything down in a wall of text on a forum, but I hope you understand my proeblem and can give me some advice. To sum it up: I like her, she loves her ex but she also seems to like me quite a lot more than just casual sex. I want her to stop thinking of her ex and rather think of me. Some advice on a good way to ask her out would be nice. Since we agreed to be sex-buddies it might look wierd if we suddenly went on a date. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 2:38 am ] |
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You must forget him first.. I've let my thoughts be haunted with many different images of my past girlfriends ex's and it's not fun at all. Once you forget about him an maintain the proper fun carefree attitude he will fade away. There is no magic pill to just completely zap him away instantly, however with time a conscious effort on your part it'll be easy. Whenever she brings him up just seem completely seem uninterested. Never ever ever ask questions about him. This will not create more thoughts of him. Making more to dig up later on. |
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| Author: | EvilAnanazZ [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 8:14 am ] |
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Thanks for the advice. I haven't asked much about him or anything and I'm going to try and ask her to come with us out on Thursday. Thought I'd send her some texts, asking how she is and making asking her to come out with us after 3-4 texts. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 12:19 pm ] |
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Quote: Thanks for the advice.
Call...calllI haven't asked much about him or anything and I'm going to try and ask her to come with us out on Thursday. Thought I'd send her some texts, asking how she is and making asking her to come out with us after 3-4 texts. CALL |
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