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Author:  whiterussian [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 10:56 am ]
Post subject:  weird vibe...

So im gonna start from the begining as its probably necessary to know the whole situation to give advice...I was working as a bouncer at a club at the time and for a whole year this girl kept coming in there with her friends. One day she came in with her real id and i realized the whole time she came in with a fake that said she was 7 years oder. I called her on it joked around and chatted for a bit. She offered to buy me a drink after work, after about 4 dates and 3 sleep over we had sex. We texted for 2 more days and then she suddenly stopped responding. A few months later we ran into eachother again. Long story short she claimed she was getting attached and got scared. We hung out a few times and had sex multiple times but now im starting to get the feeling that she is about to do the same thing. Like she spent the night a few nights ago but since we were both drunk I didn't try anything and in the morning there was no time because she had to be somewhere...and today we hung out for a few hours and she had to go hangout with her roommate and the plan was she would come spend the night afterwards, she ended up bailing and said she was going home because she didn't feel well. I negged her a bit but let it go and said goodnight.

Basically i think she is about to disapear on me again because she feels she is getting attached....HOW SHOULD I HANDLE THIS?...freeze her out a bit maybe?...I really don't want to screw this up because the I live in is full of scandalous skanks and a descent girl is pretty hard to come by.By the way she is a HB8-9. We both have similar social standings. I know a lot of girls and am socially accepted by them and she knows that so I don't know if thats good or bad . Any advice would be appreciated

Author:  Jits138 [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 12:37 am ]
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I would just keep her around as a fuck buddy. Just say "You don't have to be worried about attachment I am actually not on the market" could maybe even lead her to trying for the LTR if you want the option.

Author:  Male Member [ Thu Feb 03, 2011 8:31 pm ]
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I reckon you haven't tried TALKING TO HER?

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