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| Author: | pilot833 [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 2:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | so, dont ask her out on a date? |
I have recently seen some people saying not to ask "you want to go out on a date this weekend?" so, how do you ask a girl out and make sure she knows its a date? because what if this girl you are after, always invites a friend or two to come along. Its not a date, and I feel like she is just doing it because she is not 100% that I like her. So, how do I invite her on a date with just us two? |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 3:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: so, dont ask her out on a date? |
Quote: I have recently seen some people saying not to ask "you want to go out on a date this weekend?"
I just say where I am going and tell her to be there. I add "wear something cute" This usually let's her know you are interested without looking too try-hard. It works very well for me. If she brings other people with her you just have to isolate her which usually isn't hard if she's attracted to you.
so, how do you ask a girl out and make sure she knows its a date? because what if this girl you are after, always invites a friend or two to come along. Its not a date, and I feel like she is just doing it because she is not 100% that I like her. So, how do I invite her on a date with just us two? |
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| Author: | pilot833 [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 4:12 am ] |
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so you say "I am going to the movies friday night, if you wanna come wear something cute"? and what if she assumes i am going with friends, and then she gets there and its just me and there is awkwardness? |
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| Author: | whiterussian [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 11:05 am ] |
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I personally never ask a girl to go on a "date". I tell her "hey lets hang out some time". It's pretty obvious that if you hang out with a chick who isn't already your friend that its a date. And if you throw some kino in th mix that makes it even more clear. |
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| Author: | LyricalDream [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 11:28 am ] |
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If the girl always brings a friend then my friend, you have done something wrong in the escalation ladder. You need to realise that woman place you in a certain field fast, really fast. For example if you do not show any form of escalation within the first 5 minutes of the engagement (approach) - your odds of getting with this girl are dramaticly lowered. Hence - for what I would do - build up some regular talks - but make sure they turn intentionally sexual wise. Then do not speak to her as long as possible - she'll come running to you. Within those sexual conversations - make sure she feels that connection that woman crave for. If you do it right - there is no need to worry about a date. ≠ LD |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 5:06 pm ] |
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Quote: so you say
I would say I am going to the movies on friday night and I would like you to come. wear something cute."I am going to the movies friday night, if you wanna come wear something cute"? and what if she assumes i am going with friends, and then she gets there and its just me and there is awkwardness? Don't put in "if you wanna come" it is weak and will fill her mind with doubts about wanting to go. If she says "Are other people going to be there?" then I would answer that. IMPORTANT Don't pre-handle a non-existent objection. Awkwardness may work in your favor first of all. Second of all you need to change your mentality. Don't think "What if she shows up and is awkward because we are alone" THINK "What if she shows up and is thrilled to get to spend some time alone with me?" The second option reflects a high self value and is the way confident people think. Fake it til' you make it. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 5:25 pm ] |
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You can make it clear it's a date without saying the word "date." For example "Meet me at X station at 8:37. Dress casual but sexy. Prepare for dry white wine, witty banter, and plenty of sexual tension  "If she brings a friend to that, she is RETARDED. |
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| Author: | pilot833 [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 10:22 pm ] |
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k thanks a ton guys. If i never see her in person, should i text her? calling her seems weird, for high school age kids. |
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| Author: | Mack 2.0 [ Tue Feb 01, 2011 10:27 pm ] |
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Quote: If she brings a friend to that, she is RETARDED. 
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| Author: | pilot833 [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 3:32 am ] |
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k how bout this guys... "Hey i am going to the movie later tonight, text me if you wanna come =)" then if she says who all is going "Just me =)" |
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| Author: | vengo [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 4:53 am ] |
| Post subject: | last minut dog |
wait till the last minut to ask her, call her at noon, say you got off work early lets go grab a coffe àand dont ask her if she wants to, tell her shes going to. “hey i just got off work, ill bet your not busy because you answered your phone, lets go grab a coffee.“ |
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| Author: | Jits138 [ Wed Feb 02, 2011 5:48 pm ] |
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Quote: k how bout this guys...
Get rid of "if you wanna come?" SERIOUSLY!!!"Hey i am going to the movie later tonight, text me if you wanna come =)" then if she says who all is going "Just me =)" If you aren't comfortable with the type of message that myself and blondguy are trying to use then just say "Going to a movie tonight, text me for details" Then "915 at ________. Wear _______" |
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