Hi,
Guys, I have another problem I found in field. There is a very thin line between being an asshole and making yourself the prize or having higher value. About 2 months ago I started experimenting with pushing people's limits. Not only HB's but also AMOGs and other AFCs. I have realized that you can get away with far more than you think you can. The things you say and do, what you can get people to do... If you try and push the limits you can almost get away with murder.
What seperates a PUA from an Asshole thought is your own attitude. When you talk to people and you push their limits. If you do so with confidence you get away with it... However, the moment that you become incongruent, for example you become either arrogant or you do it from a place of neediness then you are perceived as an asshole.
This was a fun experiment and sorry to say but I am becoming addicted to the power that GAME has given me. I love that I experimented with the above... It has made my GAME so much more solid. I am beginning to understand calibration of what to say and when to say it better.
I have really been known as an asshole the last 2 weeks because I have gone out of my way to experiment. I need to take it back a notch and just become congruent again. Funny thing is this. I have been saying the exact same things just put myself in different states and this has made a world of difference. Go try it...
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