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| Author: | felixx1416 [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 9:27 am ] |
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Guy looking for your advice, is it possible to turn an LJBF around and if so how? thanks in advance Felixx |
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| Author: | tweeby [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 10:06 am ] |
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It is but if you are asking the question, it is likely your game is no way near the levels needed to actually make this shit work. Continue working on yourself. |
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| Author: | PUA Kenny [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 10:20 am ] |
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@Teewby-Exactly. Turning the tide on this one is some advanced stuff. No even I,who's been doing PU for years,have ever managed to crawl out the friend zone. I dont really attempt. But the 3-5 times I'd tried,all went no where beides weirding out the chiccs. So it takes advanced stuff. Gurus would say that it's impossible. |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 2:00 pm ] |
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I agree it won't be easy... Nothing is impossible. The difficulty depends on how long it's been seen you got the ljbf.. So how long has it been? |
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| Author: | felixx1416 [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 6:17 pm ] |
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Quote: I agree it won't be easy... Nothing is impossible.
it's been about 3 weeks
The difficulty depends on how long it's been seen you got the ljbf.. So how long has it been? |
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| Author: | here2play [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 7:01 pm ] |
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All an LJBF is is an affirmation that she doesn't think you are a creepazoid and won't file for a restraining order but that she doesn't find you either sexually desirable for a SNL or FWB fuck or see you as boyfriend/relationship material. In order to get out of the friendzone (other than pissing her off and getting that restraining order afterall) is to increase your desirability as either a FWB or as a potential BF. - to do that stop coming around and quit being her girlfriend with a dick. Don't listen to her problems, don't do errands and little chores for her. Don't talk about boyfriend and relationship problems with her or offer her advice on how to deal with her BF issues. - Do something to improve your physical appearance and physical presence (new wardrobe, new hairstyle, new bling, start working out etc) - Start hitting on and picking up other chicks. Pick up her friends. - when you run into her again later on down the road - neg her and bust her balls a bit. Flirt unabashedly with her friends and other chicks in front of her. Fuck a few of them if you can. - Then start teasing and flirting with her and put it into a sexual frame. Guys get into the friendzone because women do not see them as sexual beings and not as a potential sex partner or boyfriend. If you get away from her for awhile so you are not on her mind for a period of time. They reappear looking sharper and acting more confident, more sexual and more dominant they will see you as more sexual and have more sexual respect for you. Now they may still not choose to fuck you but she will respect you more and not see you as one of her bitches or as one of her girlfriends as much. |
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| Author: | here2play [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 7:11 pm ] |
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Another thing to do with someone who has LJBF'd you is to take her to task on being one of her friends. Usually when they say LJBF they really don't want to have anything to do with you but at is just a nicer thing to say than, "get out of my face" But if she says LJBF then make her do as a friend does and have her set you up with some of her cute friends. At first she'll try to set you up with her fat and undesirable friends but make her offer up her hot friends. She will resist that at first because she won't think you will stand a chance with her hot friends because she doesn't find you attractive and won't think they will like you either. So what you do then is have her help you become more attractive. Have her take you on a shopping spree for a new hotter wardrobe and bling. Have her suggest a new hairstyle and make over and take her along when you get it done so she can be all anal and get it done right. Pump her for infomation on what chicks like and how they like to be approached and how they want a guy to behave with them. Then have her be your wingwoman and pivot and have her help you pick up and take out other chicks. What this will do is she will be "investing" time and energy into making you more attractive and desirable. At first she will see it as cute and a mercy calling to help you out but as you become more desirable and see she's other chicks cashing in and benifitting from her efforts and labors she will want some of that benifit herself. Yes that is the plotline of a few 80s teen movies but I've been there done that and it really works. I have fucked a few of my own wingwomen and pivots back in the day so it does work. |
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| Author: | felixx1416 [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 7:35 pm ] |
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Thanks here2play some interesting advice there, is it possible to do both ignore her for a bit then re-establish contact ect or would it be better to pick one senario are go with that |
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| Author: | here2play [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 7:59 pm ] |
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Quote: Thanks here2play some interesting advice there, is it possible to do both ignore her for a bit then re-establish contact ect or would it be better to pick one senario are go with that
IMHO you are always best not coming down with a case of oneitis. Go out and live your life to it's fullest every day and pursue your own interests and do not get hung up on any one particular chick. Approach and interact and flirt with every single female you find attractive enough to catch your interest even if she is not a traditional beauty.Always look sharp and clean and always be making eye contacting and start approaching people in less than 3 seconds. Expand your social circle and get out do fun things and invite other people to do those fun things with you. Let this particular gal fall into HER place. If she see's you out having fun and having a life and she wants to be included then make her pay her dues and be your wingwoman. If you are out living your life and having fun and you happen to bump into her by chance a few months down the road, then flirt her up outrageously and game her like any other chick. If she blows you off again, walk away. If she takes the bait, play her out. BUT- DO NOT TARGET HER AND DO NOT ADJUST YOUR LIFE OR MAKE DECISIONS ACCORDING TO HER. Live your own life doing what you want to do and let her fall into place if she happens to. Be a shotgunner not a sniper. Live the fun life and hit on all women you find attractive. Most will pass you by but a few will take the bait. When one takes the bait, focus your game on her and play it out to it's natual conclusion whatever that point is. ignore the rest and move on. Oneitis is a time and energy sucking cancer that eats away at your opportunities with chicks that want you. |
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| Author: | felixx1416 [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 8:27 pm ] |
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Thanks here2play |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Mon Jan 31, 2011 3:13 am ] |
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The guys advice was more or less on point however I wouldn't suggest doing all that work for a chick your not gonna want once you get anyway. You only want her because you can't have her. Game some other chicks, fuck em an she'll come around, but by then you'll be to involved with your own life an she'll just be lucked out. Move on. It's really not worth it. It's only a girl |
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