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| Author: | somebody delete this shit [ Fri Jan 28, 2011 9:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | wtf is up with my approach anxiety. i need help |
1/28/11 Supercode deluxe mode today Well i started off at one club..i was Kinoing/kissing these two girls on the cheek and whatnot, having complete sense of entitlement. I had good interactions with them. however, it was kind of social circle as they introduced themselves to me after they went to say high to my friend/their friend. anyway I went to meet these other two girls. Just say hi, where do you go to school, i tell them my name. then i get blown off and these two guys from their school tell me to go after other girls. I remember going up to two other girls asking them to play beer pong, one of the 3 wanted to but her friends were like NO to her...so it ended up being a no. then i headed on to another club. this place was packed with fraternity guys. i literally knew like no one there [it was the place where a fraternity that i've never visited went]. hot girls throughout..but i went super chode deluxe tonight and couldn't get myself to approach anybody. i was really pissed off at myself for not being able to make approaches. the only things i was able to say: ask a girl for a cig, ask how much a beer cost. this one other girl i managed to get myself to introduce myself to right away, but she was on her way to the bathroom. one other girl i spun around and tried to interact with, but she said she couldn't because she had to text her friend, other guys came up to her and they were told that she was about to leave soon. i mean before entering this club i was able to talk to random people in the street. i'm just having rediculous trouble interacting with girls from my college in these clubs. i can't get this shit sorted out. i want to talk to them..but it appears that cold approaching doesn't seem right. i dont know why!! gah. i was a little bit too drunk tonight just wondering, will reading Tolle help me get over this??? |
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| Author: | EddieFews [ Fri Jan 28, 2011 11:41 am ] |
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The only problem I see here is desperation. It appears you have no standards an are just going after any girl that looks halfway decent enough to snow plow. And yes girls have some 6th sense women gene where than can sense this. Get a piece of paper an write down your standards ( mentally an physically ) and only talk to an continue convos with Chix that meet this. Also your approachs seem a little akward. Spun her around? And try not to ask for a beer pong partner. Try this * walk up to a chick* *eye brows raised* smile an say " Heyy I'm up next for beer pong an my partner got too drunk an bailed. Come on" an just walk away an let her follow. Anymore questions? |
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| Author: | BlagFlagPatriot [ Sun Jan 30, 2011 6:38 am ] |
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I see what happened... You turned into a AFC when faced with the club full of unknown frat boys. Unknown surroundings and unknown people. That shit threw your game, and you couldn't recover. You psyched yourself out basically. I dunno if that's it or not but it seems more what happened than you were desperate. |
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