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Author:  meane [ Tue Jan 25, 2011 11:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Tips for getting a girl through instrument lessons?
A girl and I are friends (she's an HB8) and I offered her piano lessons for free.

Anyone have any tips on how to escalate things? I already touch her just a bit (putting her hand in the right position, fixing her posture), I've talked to her about my love for the instrument (demonstrating value/passion), and played for her (which made her cry! [in a good way].)

So...where can I go from here? Classes are weekly. I have just gotten out of a relationship (and she knows that) so I want to escalate without making her feel like a rebound or anything like that. I was thinking of watching a movie related to the piano with her, but I think that it would have to come later due to the whole "oh-he-just-wants-to-get-with-me-because-he-just-got-out-of-a-relationship."

In other words, I'd like to know how to build attraction and then swoop in.

Thanks!
Author:  mobrinks [ Tue Jan 25, 2011 11:21 pm ]
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Huge opportunity for Kino - put your hands over hers and move them as you play. This could create a HUGE connection between you two.

Also, I assume you'll be sitting close together which will produce some intense eye contact.

Have fun with it - it's a great situation.
Author:  meane [ Wed Jan 26, 2011 2:43 am ]
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Thanks for the reply! Anyone have anything more specific, from personal experience?
Author:  kasabi [ Wed Jan 26, 2011 6:28 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Tips for getting a girl through instrument lessons?
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A girl and I are friends
Well, that sucks. Read up on the "Friend Zone".
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and I offered her piano lessons for free.
And this is the type of shit that brought you to the LJBF in the first place.
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Anyone have any tips on how to escalate things? I already touch her just a bit (putting her hand in the right position, fixing her posture),
This is a tough call. It's a line between her admiration of your professionalism and her lust for the passionate guy. As for me, I'd go with the power of music and play a jingle for her and then make out with her. Another way to do it would be to raise her emotions, then request a day 2.
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I've talked to her about my love for the instrument (demonstrating value/passion),
ZZzzzz . . . how is this different from a girl talking to you about her passion for knitting?
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and played for her (which made her cry! [in a good way].)
Yes! This is good!
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I was thinking of watching a movie related to the piano with her
This is 'grew up on a corn farm' corny. Think about a 'fisherman' taking a girl to see a fishing movie or an investment banker taking a girl to see a movie about Wall Street. This is BLAAAAH! Relax, you're not just the piano man . . .
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