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Author:  Blue_Star [ Mon Jan 24, 2011 1:58 pm ]
Post subject:  First date hurdle is completed, so where do I go from here ?
Hi, so I just got back from a casual date with a beautiful girl. We went for a drive ended up at the rocks Sydney harbour. We walked for a while found a spot and just talked for about an hour about general stuff. We didn't talk about any deep feelings or stuff like that I didn't want to make it awkward on a first date, I think that's better for second dates correct me if I'm wrong. Anyways I just dropped her off kissed her good bye on the cheek closer to the lips :P.
Everything went well she sent a message about how much fun she had. So know what do I do. I sent her a message saying that I had fun and that I'm looking forward to doing it again.
So in regards to how long I should wait before calling or messaging and how I should go about it and any other details feel free to add anything. I'm up for constructive criticism :P..
Author:  Chelios [ Mon Jan 24, 2011 3:19 pm ]
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Well done, her texting you was a good sign.

If you want to K close properly, maybe be straight up next time " A perfect end to this night would be if I kissed you" wink and move in.

Evident she likes you.

Set up a day 2. Maybe dinner somewhere, and a few drinks, lighten the mood in a comfortable environment, enjoy yourself!

Avoid talking about deep feelings.
Author:  Blue_Star [ Fri Jan 28, 2011 2:21 am ]
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Thanks for the advice I organised a second date on Sunday night :)..
Btw should I be messaging in the time between now and that second date, because I don't want to seem attached. I know you have to keep the attraction alive between know and then so what would I message her in the meantime.
Author:  Chelios [ Fri Jan 28, 2011 8:37 am ]
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Thanks for the advice I organised a second date on Sunday night :)..
Btw should I be messaging in the time between now and that second date, because I don't want to seem attached. I know you have to keep the attraction alive between know and then so what would I message her in the meantime.
Yes do so, just don't over do it, try and dictate the conversation. Base your response on what she's saying, when things seem dull, makes things fun. Like, "How was your day?" Her " blah blah" " Ahhhh, I had such a great day * this happened* it was so funny* things like this make you seem bright!
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