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it works so well because other guys don't have the balls to do it.
Totally agree with this part.Disagree with saying something like asking about the area beforehand though.
Basic approach is
[Pre-frame] + [Set the scene] + [Compliment] + [Introduction]
e.g.
[Hi! I know this is a bit random, but] + + [I think you're absolutely stunning so] + [I just had to come over and say hi! I'm ____ ]
Why it works:
A guy on the street coming up to a girl will often look like he's trying to get something out of her, e.g. he's a salesman selling something, a charity worker, someone handing out flyers, etc. Her natural reaction will be to avoid him, or if she does stop assume that anything he says is just him trying to get her to buy something. The pre-frame and set the scene parts show that he's acknowledging what he's doing is random, but that he literally just saw her and that's why he's come over, i.e. he's NOT a salesman.
*For NLPers, the preframe and set the scene before the compliment is a bit of pacing and leading, which builds trust. She is thinking it's a bit random, and then she was just walking past, so then she's more likely to accept the compliment and buy into the frame than if he just said "Hi! You're beautiful!" which would seem much more disingenuous.
The more heartfelt, genuine and specific the compliment is, the better. If you go with just "cute," then it's a good idea to back that up with something a bit more specific if you can, otherwise the opener might feel scripted. I really like black girls, so I'll often back it up with something about how they've done their hair which makes them look sexy, because black girls spend HOURS on their hair and many really really care a lot about how it looks. But if a girl has a great sense of fashion, or a fantastically sexy walk, TELL her. Things that she's put effort in to look good (rather than just generally being hot) are better because people like to be valued for things they actually work at and care about, rather than things they were just born with and have no control over.
Then, you work on transitioning into a normal conversation. Basically the same as transitioning in any cold approach (i.e. moving from your opener to a normal conversation). There are plenty of posts and info about that elsewhere.
As for RESULTS (your actual question): I went from doing indirect nightgame and getting a certain amount of results, to doing direct daygame and getting TEN TIMES those results. I usually have about 2-4 dates per WEEK with different girls, that I set up from doing approaches on Saturday and Sunday during the day, and during lunchbreaks and other random times during the week.
What direct changes is your entire mentality. Before, I was going up to girls in clubs and thinking "right, I have to say this thing and that thing to get her to like me, and then I have to say this thing and that thing to get her interested and that thing to get her attracted, etc." If I was ever blown out, it was MY fault for being shitty at game and I had to go back and figure out more routines and work on X Y Z.
NOW, I just go out and tell a girl I think she's fucking hot. If she stays and talks to me, it means she's interested. Then I just talk about shit and see if there's a connection, if we share some interests, if she gets my style of humour. If not, I've wasted 5 minutes of my time. If she is, we talk, have fun, set up a day 2, and exchange numbers. It's all so much EASIER! No bitch shields, shit tests, AMOGs, cockblocks, ANYTHING. Just you, a hot girl, and a 5-10 minute interaction she'll LOVE and REMEMBER you for
TRY IT!