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| Author: | DavidJ123 [ Sat Jan 22, 2011 7:29 pm ] |
| Post subject: | New here.....need a hand |
So, about a week ago I met an HB9 waitress who I was able to #close after some really good conversation and light teasing. She asked me to join her at a bar a few days from the meeting. I wasn't able to make it out because I had to work nights, so I told her that and said that the following week we could meet up. She said that sounded good and that it would be nice to see me outside the restaurant. So flash forward a few days I send her a text asking what her schedule is, she replies back saying shes free these days so I pick one that I'm available for and tell her to join me for some coffee and that if I thought she was a little crazy I could just bail out then, again teasing her as she responded so well to before. Now she didn`t respond to this at all which kind of leaves me wondering what to do. Do I send another text, do I go visit her at the restaurant a week or so from now, or just completely leave it alone? Any help appreciated, thanks guys! |
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| Author: | thinhman [ Sun Jan 23, 2011 4:01 am ] |
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Well, one thing I always avoid is teasing over text. I've learned that people could actually think I'm serious when I'm just lightly teasing because it fairly difficult to convey emotion through text. If you wanted to tease her long distance, I would have suggested calling her. Anyways, live and learn. Your problem at hand is whether to contact her. There is one question to ask yourself: What's there to lose? I mean, if you want to do it then do it. It's not like she's gonna melt you with laser vision. xD If she says no, then you know that you tried. It's much better than regret. Rejection could actually benefit more than success. If she rejects you, just analyze what you did and determine what you did wrong. You'll get better and snag even hotter HBs. I'd go to the restaurant. It's much harder for anyone to reject someone in person than over the phone, so your success rate with her rises a bit even if it just rises 1% more out of 100. |
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| Author: | Hakuna [ Sun Jan 23, 2011 4:43 am ] |
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You did everything fine, never text a woman or call a woman consecutively after she hasn't responded. It's a numbers game, don't get too caught up in one girl, keep spinning plates. If you text her again you convey desperation; even a silhouette of which is enough to ruin attraction. If she wants to see you, she text you. What you CAN DO is show up at the restaurant with a different girl in 2 weeks. Flirt with her shamelessly in front of your new date. Male Caddishness is an irresistible aphrodisiac. |
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