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Author:  EddieFews [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 4:15 am ]
Post subject:  WTF!!!!
I have been told by Close to every women at my job who speaks English, that I'm "too confident" " I walk around like I'm the man/ own the place" ( about 15-20 women)

And I have no clue wtf thier talking about.

Anyone had anything to say about this?
Author:  motzart [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 7:12 am ]
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Got this a few times. key is to build comfort with them to show your more than that cocky asshole. It sounds like a screw over with all of them but its a blessing. Find a girl you want to be with and show her your "vulnerable" side by doing things outta the ordinary, example: a girl thought I was like that, I played her a song on my ukulele. cant sing at all but did it because she " was special" and she gossiped to her friends how I was deeper than they thought and after than got with more than 3/4ths of them, but find your point and use it.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 1:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: WTF!!!!
Quote:
I have been told by Close to every women at my job who speaks English, that I'm "too confident" " I walk around like I'm the man/ own the place" ( about 15-20 women)

And I have no clue wtf thier talking about.

Anyone had anything to say about this?
They're attracted to you and you're that asshole type that they often get attracted to and then fall for who then fucks them over, so they're angry and themselves for being attracted to you and redirecting that anger towards you.

It's a real compliment. Just don't get too cocky. Keep the c&f stuff you're obviously doing, but don't be afraid to throw out random compliments to them and just be a normal, friendly, polite guy as well.
Author:  EddieFews [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 2:41 pm ]
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Blondguy always with the clutch lol.. How the fuck you find time to answer all these lol
Thanks tho dude..

The thing is they try an bring my down lol.. I gott kinda pissed yesterday.. My supervisor ( hb 8 23 years old) looks at me an says, " have you ever been turned down by a girl?,( an before I could answer she cuts me off an says) wait leme guess, all the time :)" she kept taking similar shots at me all day like that.

I just laughed an walked away..

Yea tho, it's like a group of girls there say shit like that, trying to knock me down an what not.

Some of them give in to thief attraction others do that kinda shit..
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 3:12 pm ]
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Quote:
Blondguy always with the clutch lol.. How the fuck you find time to answer all these lol
Thanks tho dude..

The thing is they try an bring my down lol.. I gott kinda pissed yesterday.. My supervisor ( hb 8 23 years old) looks at me an says, " have you ever been turned down by a girl?,( an before I could answer she cuts me off an says) wait leme guess, all the time :)" she kept taking similar shots at me all day like that.

I just laughed an walked away..

Yea tho, it's like a group of girls there say shit like that, trying to knock me down an what not.

Some of them give in to thief attraction others do that kinda shit..
Proves my point exactly.

If she weren't attracted then she wouldn't care. If she thought you were pathetic she'd say something like "do you ever talk to women" or "have you ever had a girlfriend?"

Instead she asks if you EVER get rejected. But then tries to test your frame.

Basically you're doing fine with your c&f attitude, but you're slightly overdoing it, and giving them reason to WANT to knock you down. It's the fine line between knowing you're the shit and being comfortable with yourself, and going around telling people you're the shit so much they actually want to take you down a peg.

As I said, keep doing what you're doing, but don't be afraid to give a compliment, ask about how someone's day is going, and generally be a friendly nice guy. It's not AFC if you do it from a position of giving value to people, rather than saying something nice so that they'll like you.

These girls could all be good female friends of yours. All you have to do is give them a bit of value and time, not be too cocky the whole time, and talk about shit like relationships with them at the coffee machine, and they'll love you forever.

If you keep going too hard with the cocky though, it'll turn from "you're too confident" to "you're a dick" and that'll cause the wrong kind of tension.
Author:  mobrinks [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 5:32 pm ]
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For me, being called cocky is perhaps the best compliment I can receive.

It's a GOOD thing. Keep doing what you're doing.

As someone noted, you can tone it down SLIGHTLY by throwing in the very OCCASIONAL sincere comment. Use this sparingly and it will be like you're dropping a bomb on them, and completely throw them off guard... making them all the more attracted to you.
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