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| Author: | nradam [ Tue Jan 18, 2011 7:41 pm ] |
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Well, heres the situation. I met this girl in a salsa workshop and i really like her. Half way through the dance, when she was talking to her friend, i was watching her for like 5 minutes and she didnt glance at me even once during the whole conversation (no signs of IOI). But we did talk well that day, and i added her as friend in facebook (I didnt ask her number that day). I wanted to meet her day after tomorrow (cuz i anyways have to go to her college that day), and somehow tell her about my interest in her a few days from now. I only had one conversation with her in facebook which didnt go out very well. She was replying after long intervals. I asked her whether she is busy and she said that she is talking to her friend. So i asked her to ping me when she's done. She said ok but she didnt ping me as i asked her and went offline after a while lol. Shall i go forward with this? Well, im sorta scaring myself out of this now, what should i do next. I havent really worked on any PUA related skills ad for now but i intend to in the future. |
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| Author: | SiNfUl [ Tue Jan 18, 2011 10:53 pm ] |
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What you should do next is forget this girl and start working on your PUA skills or you will have many more disappointments like this one. There is nothing to move forward with because you haven't accomplished anything. If there is no IOI, it's because you did not get her attention or interest. Talking well does not equal attraction. All that does is place you into the friend zone, or worse, AFCville. Start reading some PUA material my friend, good luck. |
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| Author: | nradam [ Wed Jan 19, 2011 3:07 am ] |
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I dont think i dropped into the friend zone because i was taking care of it. I am gonna work on my PUA from now on, yea..... but since i know her college and all, can i just try to see how things goes??? Yea, i was sort of an AFC with my ex and thats why i broke with her lol... |
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| Author: | SiNfUl [ Wed Jan 19, 2011 3:18 pm ] |
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Go for it. Keep in mind, if you use the same tactics, you will get the same results. |
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| Author: | nradam [ Wed Jan 19, 2011 8:14 pm ] |
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Well, thanks.........im havin an rAFC stage now i guess, but im still gonna try on this chick for a while and see hw i can play with this situation. In the last chat she said to me that she is busy and will ping me when shes done (but she didnt) as ive written above. But then i tried chatting wit her today also. I tried an opener: "Hey u still busy?" and not any response came. After some one hour of hearing metal, i gave her another "?". Still no replies. In the end, i sent her a message like this : " woah....u r one busy girl. I was tryin to spice up a convo der thinking we met and all..... just lik dat. Tell me if u got any prob, we can settle it out. " No replies has come as yet, but ill tell u guys when it comes. Another thing is, i am goin to her college tomorrow for some work (I recently got some friends der who we r recruiting for our breakdance crew), so i can ask her to meet me in fb messages. But how shud i ask since we didnt really have any good conversation after the dance, not even in chat!! Tell me what do u guys think about this situation and about the message i sent her. What is the next step that u wud have taken to get her in ur bed. Peace |
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| Author: | SiNfUl [ Wed Jan 19, 2011 8:31 pm ] |
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You really need to study some PUA material nradam. To say you are in an AFC stage right now is an understatement. She is straight up IGNORING you. Take the hint and move on. Do you actually need to hear her say 'leave me alone', because that is where you are heading. You are coming across as a weak, approval seeking wussy. We both know these traits do not attract women. Stop wasting your time. Get your game together, practice gaming other women. Learn how to spark attraction and keep a woman's interest level high. |
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| Author: | nradam [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 5:15 am ] |
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U r straight up rite man..... im leavin this chick. I was lucky enuf to dance with an HB10 in my perspective but i shudnt just hold on to that one girl cuz it was just luck that day. This shit is hard man, im thinkin about this girl everytime and like i cant get her becuz she is way outta my league lol. What shud i do to get over this mentallity and start getting back my confidence. |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Jan 20, 2011 10:50 am ] |
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You would do well to make FRIENDS with girls you meet in things like dance classes, at work, etc. You can learn an awful lot about how to interact with them, what they respond to, and you can talk about relatinoships with them. Plus, when they know and like you, they can give you warm introductions to their girlfriends, who you can then game. Your mindset from the above interaction is all wrong. A girl doesn't OWE you anything just because you had a nice chat or two. She has no idea about you, what your intentions are, or what value you would bring to her life. She's saying she's busy because she can't be fucked to deal with you, but you're putting her in a position where she has to be nice because you're in the same class together. That's a recipe for the kind of social awkwardness women run screaming from. That message of "hey you're real busy, was trying to chat, what's the problem" is PATHETIC. Do you have nothing better to do than try and get the attention (via the internet) of a girl who barely knows you? Don't you have other friends to hang out with? Why are you giving her all this attention and investing so much in her? Do you not see why saying that is REALLY WEIRD? Regardless, next time you're in that class, just focus on having a good time, learning, sharing some jokes with people, and interact with her in the same way as everyone else - be playful, fun, and good natured. Forget about "game." She may realise you're actually a pretty cool guy and forget about the dumb shit you said before. |
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