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| Author: | pleasureseeker [ Mon Jan 17, 2011 2:07 pm ] |
| Post subject: | successful pick up turned very bad, but is this recoverable? |
ok so I went to a club and I managed to number close a girl (not that smoothly though, I felt kind of itchy about it) after I number closed her I said I was going to go check up on my friend... so I see her later in the night while i'm talking to my friends and I was a little tipsy and pulled some serious afc shit. I was really clingy, I became super try hard... I just ignored all my education I have no Idea why. Later in the night her friend and her actually ditched me (like ran away from me on the dance floor).... so a week passes and I accidently text her goes something like this me: urban outfitters I think (accidental text) her: ? me: what? her: who is this? me: Idk you texted me her: who is this!? me: oh wait haha I texted you on accident, sorry ... the continued on and she was very enthusiastic and I ended it by giving her an e-mail to search for my social network... she finds me and adds me and I comment on page and she replies with a laugh and an enthusiastic sentence... I don't reply back... about a week later she deletes my comment... and I was talking to her and she seemed friendly, then I pretended I just noticed it and asked did you delete my comment? and she was like yeah well you didn't reply back... does her deleting my comment show like that she was irritated that I don't talk to her much? that's a good thing isn't it? |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Mon Jan 17, 2011 3:41 pm ] |
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Well done for salvaging the situation. Once she replies enthusiastically, why would you ignore her? That's giving an IOD for an IOI. If a girl gives you an IOI, don't PUNISH her with silence, REWARD her with an IOI of your own! After she replied, you ignored her. So she felt stupid for having done anything and took it down so she didn't look like a loser / unpopular. She assumed that you didn't reply because you weren't interested in her any more, so deleted any evidence of her interest not being reciprocated. Instead, you should have taken the opportunity to keep the momentum going and invited her to something. I would message her and say you were busy but would be up for hanging out, then set up a day 2 and take things from there. |
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