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Author:  Barfly35 [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 2:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Open a set and boyfriend comes ?

Hi again :)

Im having a problem when im opening girls.

When i decicde to go and open a girl i always think "what if her boyfriend comes when im opening the set"

What should i do if a girls boyfriend comes and says "what you doing?"

Any suggestions?

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 3:05 pm ]
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"Hey! You know I was just chatting up your girlfriend. She is super hot, congrats! (Hi five / handshake, smile) So are you like, a billionaire or a pornstar or something man? You gotta teach me how to get women like her!"

However, the main thing is - stop worrying about what MIGHT happen and just APPROACH.

Author:  Barfly35 [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 3:16 pm ]
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In our country people are not comfortable with these things :) If i gear em people will see me "what a jerk he is talking to girls and beating their boyfriend"

Any ideas to run away from set :D

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 3:37 pm ]
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In our country people are not comfortable with these things :) If i gear em people will see me "what a jerk he is talking to girls and beating their boyfriend"

Any ideas to run away from set :D
Dude, it doesn't matter what the country is. Stop fearing the worst. If you give a guy a compliment about how beautiful his girlfriend/wife is, and assume he's really rich or massively endowed, he will take it WELL. Imagine if a guy asked you the same thing? It's a massive ego boost. As long as you say it with a SMILE. Trust me.

Author:  TheJ [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 3:45 pm ]
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Agreed with Blondguy. Perhaps there is some cultural differences but if a boyfriend appears just compliment him on his girl, stop all interaction with her and politely eject.

Quickly in the interaction you can shoot a : "So what brings you out tonight/today/etc, what is the occasion?". Most girl with a possesive BF will say something along the lines of: " My boyfriend and I came out to...blablabla". If she doesn't mention anything, game on. If a BF shows up you can revert to the compliment / eject route.

Author:  Carmo [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 3:52 pm ]
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Most guys with even a little bit of social tact wont approach the group and be like "who are you, what are you doing with my girfriend grrrr". Only idiot chodes do that and if he does it just makes him look jealous and insecure.

This hardly ever happens man, dont let it stop you from approaching.

Now, if youre on the other end of this situation and you come back from the bathroom and there is a guy talking to your gf, the best way to handle it is to be social and make friends with the guy thus showing superior social skills and gaining attraction from your girl.

Author:  Barfly35 [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 3:57 pm ]
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Thanks a lot guys it really helped me.I will say "you are a great couple" and "see you" :D

Author:  zebraG [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 5:53 pm ]
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Most guys will just make themselves known to you if you start hitting on their girl.

Generally making themselves known involves; "Hi, I'm Susie's fiancee". Respond to this as indicated. There are a place I know where they make themselves known with a knife, but that's a long way from normal.

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