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Author:  Hardliquor001 [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 7:38 am ]
Post subject:  Why am I acting like that? I know I'm not the only one...

Hey guys,

Today I went clubbing with my brother and 2 of his friends, for some reasons I decided to sarge that night but didn't have the balls to do it (at least I admit it) but for some reasons, whenever my brother and his friend go somewhere I have the feeling that I can't be left alone. Whenever he goes somewhere, I follow. I'm trying to have fun by myself but feel uncomfortable being alone for some reasons. Why am I acting like that? Is there any tips you guys have to change this bad habit/attitude?

I'm pretty sure someone is riding on the same boat as me, if you're that type of person and you changed, please help me.

thanks!

Author:  Jav [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 7:43 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Why am I acting like that? I know I'm not the only one...

Quote:
Hey guys,

Today I went clubbing with my brother and 2 of his friends, for some reasons I decided to sarge that night but didn't have the balls to do it (at least I admit it) but for some reasons, whenever my brother and his friend go somewhere I have the feeling that I can't be left alone. Whenever he goes somewhere, I follow. I'm trying to have fun by myself but feel uncomfortable being alone for some reasons. Why am I acting like that? Is there any tips you guys have to change this bad habit/attitude?

I'm pretty sure someone is riding on the same boat as me, if you're that type of person and you changed, please help me.

thanks!


Too bad there's no pride in cowardice.

Knowing the why to your problem is only going to cause mental masturbation. You know what you're doing wrong, now take active steps towards changing them.

Author:  Petari [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 11:13 am ]
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I HAD the same problem, i hated to sit alone.

But 3 weeks ago, i managed to remove it. The way i did was, i went to my favorite bar - with my friends - then after 1 hour, i left them, went to another part of the bar, sat on a chair ALONE and sat there Alone for 1hour. It wasn't that uncomftable, not at all i realized, but especialle not because a couple of girls actually approached me, i guess they were wondering why i was all alone :)

Author:  PIST0L [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 12:25 pm ]
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yup bro, the best way to overcome is by doing....spend a day at the mall or another crowded place completely ALONE while you smile and say hi or open to everyone you see

Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 12:58 pm ]
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1. Do daygame by yourself so u get used to sarging alone

2. When you go out, walk in the venue already having fun with your friends. Then, scan the room for a set whilst you're in your group, and open the FIRST set you see. When you're with people, it's really easy because you go approach, and then after the interaction you always have the safe haven of your friends if you get blown out. So you're always moving and never standing by yourself looking like a shmuck.

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