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Author:  Petari [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 11:59 am ]
Post subject:  How to bring girl from club -> bed? (ONS)
Apparently, my game have improved so much the last 2 months, really, i manage to number & Kiss close the girls i want, but still, the most important part of my game FAILS.

Day 2's, i have no clue here. I don't even want to discuss this part.

But How to make a ONS, that is something i need help with!

I need a sentence i could use, to bring girls back home, something inbetween "wanna go home with me and see my butterfly collectioN" and "do you wanna fuck".

Give me something, i really need help with this, i need a way to bring the girls home with me, while their IL is very high, (:
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 12:46 pm ]
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Things to do BEFORE you invite her back

1. SCREEN / QUALIFY / FRAME with sexual topics. For example "you're the adventurous type aren't you?" / tell her a story about having a great time doing your own thing and not giving a shit what other people think / bring up sexual topics. Basically get her to show you the sexy, fun, carefree side of herself that's totally open about sex and treats it as a completely normal thing.

2. BUILD SEXUAL TENSION with kino, eye contact, body language, sex topics (again)

3. Make sure she's comfortable with you and trusts you (i.e. you've given her at least one little "embarrassing" / deep story about yourself, she knows basics like name, job, age, etc.)

4. Show her you're DISCREET, will not JUDGE her, and you will take ALL the responsibility for whatever may happen.

5. Make sure her friends also LIKE and TRUST you too.

6. Have your LOGISTICS sorted out. The longer you have to wait around at a bus stop or walk down a dark alley in the rain, the more time she has to start worrying and questioning whether she should be going off some some guy she hardly knows's place.

Things to do when PROPOSING the invite

1. Don't mention sex (if you don't already know this, you're RETARDED)

2. Bring up a common interest (i.e. you want to play her the youtube vid you were talking about / lend her the CD of your friend's band you invited her to come see, etc.)

3. Say she can only stay for like 5 minutes

4. As with all plans, TELL her to come, don't ask.

5. If she refuses, don't plead or whine. Just continue vibing and having fun, and propose something else like a bounce location or an afterparty instead like 20 minutes later.

Things to do ON THE WAY

1. KEEP TALKING / having fun. If you guys are walking down the street to your place in silence, she's spending the whole time running down the list of possible terrible things that might happen to her and questioning whether she should be doing this. A great thing to do is to have your iPod and share a headphone each (or have the stereo on in your car). You can keep the energy going from the evening as you're on your way and still have a fun conversation, but if there's silence it's ok because there's music to keep her mind occupied.

Things to do when u GET THERE

1. KEEP TALKING / having fun. Offer her a drink, talk about the shit in your place, like your record collection, photo albums, whatever it is to keep her mind occupied, and reinforce interest in you. Leave too long a pause after you've just walked in and you'll hear "well, I should get going" more often than not.

2. Reinforce the idea that nothing's gonna happen, before she does. If you start kissing and things get more serious, and you just keep pushing towards sex, a lot of the time she'll pull back and say you guys should slow down / stop / wait, etc. You then have to freeze out at least once to start countering her LMR. You can diffuse LMR if you pre-empt her by saying things like that FIRST. So, for example, say that she can only stay 5 mins because you have to be up tomorrow.

3. Get comfy somewhere. I like to chill on my bed with my computer and play songs / vids on it. I also have my guitar in my room so I can play her a song. You can choose a couch or something. Somewhere where sex can happen basically. Whilst you're sitting there, slow down your words, increase sexual eye contact, do triangular gazing, wait for a lull in conversation, and then go 90% of the way into the kiss, letting her go the last 10%. Be the first to break the kiss, and when you look back into her eyes she'll likely go towards you.

4. Once you have the "green light," don't be afraid to be dominant and aggressive. Women like to be submissive sexually, so you're respecting their desire if you treat them like that. I like to push her against the wall and kiss her, be the first to break the kiss, and then grab her and throw her on the bed and get on top of her. This is good because it shows the sex is happening on your terms, and gives her this moment where there's no contact between you, so she actually wants you to come over and touch her again (push-pull). If you only push and push, that's when you start getting LMR.

Things to do AFTER

1. If you actually would like to see her again, then a bit of nice pillow talk and cuddling goes down well. Talk about what attracted her to you, when she thought something might happen, what her fantasies are, what she likes a guy to do, etc. This is all useful to help your pickup and give her a great experience next time.

2. Be happy, fun and lighthearted the next day. A girl may feel uncomfortable and awkward, and might have been drunk and regretting what happened. If you seem awkward about it too, then it'll just make things worse.

3. Text her that day saying how fun the night was. Don't say anything retarded like how good she was or actually talk about the sex. Just that little bit of keeping in touch will stop her feeling like a slut.

4. Wait a couple of days before arranging the next time to see her. DON'T ask her when she's free again as she's leaving or in the follow up text that day.
Author:  Petari [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 1:47 pm ]
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Thank you VERY much blondguy (: !! Usefull stuff! I will definatly try using this tomorow when i am hitting the clubs.


Once again, thanks (:!
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 3:40 pm ]
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Im the self-proclaimed club game master PUA,so I can help here.

It's a waste of my time to get on any thread with Blondguy because I know he's usually 100% accurate(lol).But what the hell!!

I agree totally with fellow -forum leader Blondguy.

Thing is,Im an indirect-gamer,but if there's ever a time to go direct(maybe not from the opener),it's in a club/bar.

The girls' buying temperatures are off the chart!!

Solid advise again Blondguy about giving her a story which conveys a vulnerability of yours.

You dont want to come off as the ultra-perfect person without flaws.

Let her know that you are really a shy-guy at heart.

Make something up!

It builds trust as Blondguy said.

And please remember to befriend the obstacles(her friends).

Nowadays,it's rare to find a girl who goes clubbing alone(safety issues),so you're gonna have to create a positive impression to her friends in order for them to allow her to go off with you.

Dont mention sex as Blondguy said.

You dont want to trigger her ASD at the time of trying to bounce her.

I remember 1 of my greatest ONS years ago,in order to get the HB10 to come bacc to my hotel(I was in another island),I # closed her(after heavy tonguing and making out in the loung area).

But my phone battery was dead(I pretended).

So I said to her,"Damn,I really want your #.I have a pen in my hotel,let's go get it(the pen so I can write it down)".

Lol,it's hysterical now because the girl actually came with me via a flimsy-ass excuse of getting a pen to write her #(lmao).

Of course she knew that wasnt the (sole)reason I wanted her back at my hotel.

But you have to give her some sought of reason,however dumb it is,besides sex.
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