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| Author: | burton555 [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 6:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Possible Awkward Date Situation Coming Up? |
Girl asked me to go to a game with her. It's a first date, we've had limited face to face interaction before. At the game will be plenty of people she knows, she's a regular I believe, I won't know anyone at all. I've often had problems with this when friends know someone I don't I just sort of stand there awkwardly. Any suggestions so I don't get stuck inside my own head? I'd feel much better off in a one on one situation. Also, k-close might be out of the question in such a public setting first date? |
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| Author: | chopi [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 6:28 am ] |
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dude! this is a perfect opportunity for you. Befriend all of her friends, and begin throwing some negs at your target. Use some like "Is she always like this" or something simple. Then get the approval of her friends. Ignore her for a bit and then look for IOI's. Towards the end of the game be like " i've been ignoring (insert Name) all day, do you mind if i spend some time with her" or any other method to isolate her. Then when in a one on one setting, bounce to various places, and you can actually do a kiss-close if you receive the proper IOIs |
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| Author: | burton555 [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 6:42 am ] |
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Thanks man I didn't really look at it like that. Anyone have a good response to "Is this your boyfriend?". I have some feeling one of her friends is going to make a wise-ass remark and I couldn't think of any good to say to it. |
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| Author: | GKS [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 7:01 am ] |
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Simply say : "She hasn't earned that right yet" or just shut up and enjoy watching her handle the pressures from both side (you and her friends). It's your shittest for her, let her qualifying herself, let her think that depending on her answer you will decide to next her or not. |
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| Author: | burton555 [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 7:05 am ] |
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I was also thinking "Is that what she calls me?", or does that send a bad message that I'm not the slightest interested. |
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| Author: | GKS [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 7:11 am ] |
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Quite the opposite, it shows that you have a lot of interest in her, you actually CARE A LOT about what she tells her friends about u. Point is you haven't even k-close her, you should be laughing your ass off even if they ask you if u guys are dating, let alone bf/gf. Don't sweat over it. Like I say, I would just shut up, smirk and give her a seductive eye contact. |
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| Author: | burton555 [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 7:21 am ] |
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Any good videos/articles you can recommend on eye contact/body language? |
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| Author: | Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 10:32 am ] |
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Anyone have a good response to "Is this your boyfriend?"
Befriending the friends is the right answer, as above.As for this, I like to use that old routine of "well since you've been gone we got engaged, married, went on our honeymoon, fell out of love, and are now divorced, but (turning to her) you can keep the beach house but I WANT THE PUPPY!" Big smile, always gets a laugh. Again, it's part of taking a "shit-test" and absurdifying it to the point of hilarity. The point of this "date" is you have to show you're comfortable with social pressure and comfortable with her. As well as befriending her friends and acting cool, also make sure to joke around with her, be flirty, and don't be afraid to kino like clawing her in, and holding her by the small of the back, etc. When I'm on a 1st or 2nd date with a girl, I make sure our body language LOOKS like we've been going out for months and are really in love. That makes her more comfortable in the social situation, and it puts her in the frame of being comfortable with you and your touch (backwards rationalisation - we would only be sitting this close with his arm around me if we really liked each other, so therefore we do). Also, it diffuses possible cockblock attempts. If you see a guy and a girl sitting nervously next to each other, with a big gap between them, not touching at all, and exchanging pleasantries uncomfortably whilst looking at the floor, how tempting is it to fuck with them and be like "so when are you guys gonna make out?" If a guy is sitting with a girl's legs on his, arm around her, holding hands, looking into each other's eyes whilst laughing and giggling, it would be fucking RETARDED and not at all funny if you went over and were like "is he your boyfriend duh huh." NB: DO NOT NEG HER. Negs are only for the first couple of minutes of interaction with a 9/10 in a club at night. FLIRT with her, don't be afraid to make fun of her a little, but do so in the context of smiling and laughing and having fun. |
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