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Author:  $uave [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:49 pm ]
Post subject:  Text game???
Alright guys I just recovered from my last one-itis and started contacting my dead numbers. Got response from one of them. Tell me please your opinions on howw it went and what should I do next.
(BTW I met her the night before one of my finals and we studied together for exam(yeah I use every opportunity for gaming since I have a very busy lifestyle;)

Me:Hi its Rustam. So how did your math final go?

8 min later
Her:Oh? Hi u r the guy who studied final with me, riht? I didn't get a good grade but I passed anyway.

i answered 17 min later ;)
Me: Yeah me too. Looks like this semester is gonna be a lot of fun. i'm preparing for skydiving when it gets warmer. What's up with you?

3 min later
Her: Wow! Skydiving??I want to do that too! Where can I learn? Anyway my semester might be boring.

me 6 min later ;)
Me:I'm gonna jump with instructor. I'm sure your semester's gonna be fun to. Do you like breakdancing?
Her:I was in b-boying club when I was in middle school haha but i forgot everything. I like watching btw.

5min later
Me:I'm going to the next battle. Wanna join?

the same minute
Her" so will you dance?

few minutes later.
Me:watch. I need few more years of practice to battle these guys. i'll let u know when it comes up.

2min later
Her" Okay that's nice. Where is the place?

me few miin later : idk usually its (the place)OMG guess what i just watched right now.

Her:Wat? U mean they r doing battle right now?

Me: I just saw my friend battling a guy in a yellow dog costume. Dog just did a moonwalk. awesome.

Her: Haha.. Have fun then. I'll watch next time.

Of course I didn't answer.

What's my next step. what corrections in my text game should be made?

Appreciate it.
Author:  Chelios [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:06 pm ]
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Seems alright and legit. Are the sky diving and break dancing ideas legit or just for game purposes? If fake, get some real stuff in there man! That way it'll be easier to set up a meet, this should be your objective now, she's interested, I can see IOI's there.
Author:  $uave [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:17 pm ]
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it is legit. I don't lie(most of the time and definitely in gaming purposes)
Author:  Lava [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:21 pm ]
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there is IOIs there, u can neg her for saying "she thinks her semester will be boring", take an advantage and make it not so boring. I personally would text something like "maybe if you're lucky we can meet up and get you to come out of your boring shell"
Author:  Chelios [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:33 pm ]
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there is IOIs there, u can neg her for saying "she thinks her semester will be boring", take an advantage and make it not so boring. I personally would text something like "maybe if you're lucky we can meet up and get you to come out of your boring shell"
Good one, or I'd go more cocky and direct saying " Well seen as it's so boring, I'll brighten up your day a bit sometime soon"
Author:  $uave [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:45 pm ]
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I haven't talked to her or texted or anything like that in like 3 weeks after I just met her. I don't think goin so direct on the first text is a good idea, but I can easily be wrong. Anyways I wonder how should I ask her out because I have no idea when the next battle is gonna be. It can be in a few months or so. Any thoughts on this?
Author:  Chelios [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:51 pm ]
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Ideally, set up a meet before the next battle, before someone else sets one up with her??
Author:  $uave [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 10:59 pm ]
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that's exactly what I'm talking about. Settig a meet within next week(way before the next battle)

The question is how do I set it up? I mean how to initiate a convo? text?call?what to talk about(maybe some awesome staff I'm doing right now but it really gets old. She is Korean maybe ask something in Korean lol) and then what?

The only thing that comes to my mind now is: Hey we should go hang out sometime. How about (place time) Seems kinda cliche to me.

Any other options? or u think this would work just fine?
Author:  $uave [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 12:32 am ]
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and finding a place is a problem. I'm in a small college town with nothing much going on...(((without a car. And it's pretty damn cold here now, so going to parks and open air locations is out-of-question. Any ideas?
Author:  GKS [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 7:49 am ]
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"Come watch my wining routine !" She get there, ask her to dance, ask her if she wanna learn some cool moves.
KINO KINO KINO KINO KINO and KINO the SHIT out of her !
Why the fuck do you wanna go to the park where everyone is around to cockblock you when you have a perfect chance to meet her up in the dance gym 1 on 1 and a legit fun active environment for fooling around and kino each other?
Author:  Chelios [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 8:39 am ]
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"Come watch my wining routine !" She get there, ask her to dance, ask her if she wanna learn some cool moves.
KINO KINO KINO KINO KINO and KINO the SHIT out of her !
Why the fuck do you wanna go to the park where everyone is around to cockblock you when you have a perfect chance to meet her up in the dance gym 1 on 1 and a legit fun active environment for fooling around and kino each other?
A possiblity.

Or, just be yourself, call her, keep it short, or send a message, see how she is, then ask to hook up for a drink/coffee, casual, no pressure, no need for real game, she has given IOI's, she is interested.
Author:  Ryan Black SashaPUA [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 9:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Text game???
Quote:
Me: Yeah me too. Looks like this semester is gonna be a lot of fun. i'm preparing for skydiving when it gets warmer. What's up with you?

Me:I'm gonna jump with instructor. I'm sure your semester's gonna be fun to. Do you like breakdancing?
Her:I was in b-boying club when I was in middle school haha but i forgot everything. I like watching btw.

me few miin later : idk usually its (the place)OMG guess what i just watched right now.

Me: I just saw my friend battling a guy in a yellow dog costume. Dog just did a moonwalk. awesome.
All those texts are pretty good. Skydiving, breakdancing, the dog costume, all very unique and fun. However this stuff should have been spaced out over HOURS and DAYS, not minutes.

She's obviously somewhat interested, but not really sure where things are going - are you trying to be her friend, or what?

Easiest way to get her out is a low-pressure invite, out with other friends to some event, during the week. After making introductions and hanging out, you can isolate her and take things from there. MAKE YOUR INTENTIONS CLEAR ASAP. That doesn't mean saying "omg I have feelings for you" or something gay. It can literally be something like (since she didn't really remember you that well) "hey you're actually cuter than I remember" and/or being flirty and sexual and ramping up the kino. If you invite her out with friends and just sit there talking about classes and don't say or do anything that indicates you want to fuck, she WILL friendzone you.
Author:  $uave [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 7:13 pm ]
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@blondguy I agree about spacing it.

If I keep going at this rate there'll be nothing much to talk about quite soon. It's just I really watched the guy in a yellow dog costume moonwalking. I just felt like I have to share.

About spacing: how am I supposed to space out things if she keeps answering the same minute?maybe talk more deeply about each of skydiving etc more deeply, but that seems like a momentum-killer to me.

About Isolation: How am I supposed to isolate her anytime soon with all my friends following me(AMOG)?

The only way I see to get out with friends, kino and then Isolate, is if I invite her to our group practice. Here is learning-kino, friends, music, and after we're done practicing, walking her home(or bus station is an isolation) Sounds kinda lame.

Asking out to a cup of coffee....hm, I can do some palm reading/ but that's the extent of my kino-ideas for coffee/restaurant type of settings. I can neg her a little, make intentions clear, built some comfort(through truth game, and these type of things)Can put a sexual frame, making convo topics more sexual. I have trouble with push/pulling, but I can try. I wonder how far should I go? Obviously I'll try to act according to situation, but any basic guidelines?
Author:  $uave [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 2:22 am ]
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update:

I texted her today: "How is it going?"

She answered about 1.5 hours later: "So so. Haha tired.."

I haven't answered yet. thinking about something like"Its me who's gotta be tired, I've been dancing for the past 2 hours. Wanna hook up for a coffee anytime soon?"

Advices would be very appreciated.(I'm a bit skeptical about my text game)
Author:  GKS [ Thu Jan 13, 2011 2:49 am ]
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Dude, how many time we gonna need to make it CLEAR to you that you DON'T ASK her PERMISSION to hang out, but you TELL her to. It's not a DATE, you just CASUALLY ask her to tag along, and TO YOU, it DOESN'T matter if shes going or not, you will do it anyway. That's how you suppose to make it appear like.

You may suggest " Hey ima go to this xx coffee shop after this workout, come with me, their xxx is really good !"
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