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| Author: | noochie [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 6:45 pm ] |
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Alright, since I started getting into PUA ive been steadily progressing and its been feeling amazing. Truly life changing. But today i woke up and went back to school and saw this one girl that I liked from a while ago before i started on pickup. But today It may have been because I was really tired or something but I felt a huge regression and I started acting timid and nervous, forgetting things, skipping over topics and felt a big decline in my confidence while talking to her. I kinda thought about it afterward as to why ,after I came so far, i go back to the shyness. I kinda think that she expects me to act timid because thats what she knows me as, so i cant change so fast and act like a totally different person. That and probably revertigo, after not seeing her for a long time, mentally I went back in time to how I was with her before. Now, my question is. How do I stop this? How can I bring my new and improved (in development) self and just act natural like how I would with girls I dont know. I can charm, impress, pull numbers, escalate, kiss close. It seems like im at my best when im meeting girls I dont know yet. How do i bring my game into my everyday life with people I already know from my past. |
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| Author: | HaloGears [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 8:40 pm ] |
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Sounds like you have a anchored-mentality to this person of how they expect you to behave. I kind of like see this like partying with your boss and co-workers, which you have a certain image you think you have to uphold in front of them. I know the answer may be so obvious, but just don't give a shit my man. It is better when you haven't seen her for awhile so it can be like you changed over the time period you guys haven't seen each, contrast to being completely different overnight. You can say to her about the things that happened in you life since you last saw her for your new fond behavior. |
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| Author: | TheJ [ Tue Jan 11, 2011 9:35 pm ] |
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To add to what Halogears said, just move on. If it happens to you with every single girl, you might have something to change and improve, it's it's just that one it doesn't matter at all. |
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| Author: | $uave [ Wed Jan 12, 2011 4:04 am ] |
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If you forget all the PUA staff remember this(write it on your palm if you want) "She is definitely not THE ONE! But we might have a great sex. If she earns it" |
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| Author: | noochie [ Fri Jan 14, 2011 6:34 pm ] |
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awesome guys thank |
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